For parents, it is very serious for children to "steal" things. Parents will be very worried and will not punish and educate him, fearing that their children will not form an honest and upright life character.

If we look at it from another angle and regard it as a good opportunity to learn from mistakes, what can children learn from it?

In positive discipline, there is a tool called four steps to win cooperation. We can use this tool to guide children to learn and grow from this mistake.

1. Communicate this topic honestly and unfairly with your child. I noticed that you took a snack in the supermarket, but we didn't pay the bill. I guess you really want to eat this snack? Would you like to talk to me about it?

2. If the child denies it, you can say to him, "You may feel a little scared and worry that telling the truth will be criticized by your mother. It's normal to feel this way. Would you like to hear your mother's thoughts? "

3. Sharing your growth story with children is not preaching or indoctrination, but equal communication and communication.

4. Think about solutions with your children.

Note that parents must truly understand and accept that he is a child from the child's point of view. He is your favorite baby. First of all, trust him to ensure the emotional safety of children.