? To err is human, it is normal for children to have shortcomings, and children are growing up in the process of constantly correcting their shortcomings. Parents can't turn a blind eye to cover up their mistakes for their children.

When I was a child, I played in the street with some children. In the meantime, a child passed by on a bicycle, so he rubbed against me and trampled my foot, which was very painful. I staggered sitting on the ground.

We shouldn't play on the road, it's our fault. But the child was so rude that he didn't stop to say he was sorry. We discussed it and said that we would go to his house to complain.

The children helped me to the children's house. We told his mother about it noisily. I thought she would educate her children. Unexpectedly, she scolded us, even us.

Finally, my mother told the parents of our children about it, and we were scolded by our parents. Fortunately, our parents are reasonable people and won't cover up their mistakes like her.

In fact, we didn't intend to let the mother beat and scold the child at that time, nor did we intend to ask for any compensation. We just want to vent a few words to the mother of the child, so that she can simply educate the child and seek some psychological balance.

In front of us, the child's mother not only refused to admit the child's fault, but also blindly covered up the fault for the child and passed it on to us, which would make the child feel that he had made any mistake and everyone was there. Cover? Look at that.

Later, I heard that the child was sent to a labor camp for fighting with others. How could his mother not protect him at that time?

I'm not hitting a person when he's down. I think the child's current situation is entirely caused by the mother who defended her fault. At that time, I defended my shortcomings, and I didn't let my children suffer a little loss. In the end, I suffered a big loss.

The child made a mistake, and your first consciousness is to protect the child, which is understandable. But the important thing is, if it's really the child's fault, can't parents? Defend yourself for your mistakes? .

That day, Tong Tong was playing with several children downstairs, but it didn't take long for me to hear the voice of a child crying below.

I hurried downstairs and saw Shirley crying there. Tong Tong stood beside me at a loss.

Soon, I knew the whole story:

The children were playing by the sand pile, and Shirley sprinkled a handful of sand on Tong Tong's hair, which was still very interesting. Tong Tong was very angry. She also grabbed a handful of sand and threw it at Shirley. The sand got into Shirley's clothes, which made Shirley cry.

I seem to be? Justice? The children are staring at me to see how I deal with it. Tong Tong hid in my arms, hoping that I could protect her and help her? Courses? Shirley.

But, I didn't. At least at that time, I let Tong Tong down.

I taught Tong Tong that Shirley didn't mean it. Clean up the sand in your hair. Anyway, take a shower at night, and it will be clean then. How can you throw sand at Shirley again?

I have a tough attitude when I speak. Tong Tong did not defend himself. Little Shirley felt embarrassed and said, Uncle, it's my fault not to lecture Tong Tong. ?

Shirley said, holding Tong Tong's hand in the past, as if to protect Tong Tong from my criticism.

After Tong Tong came home, I solemnly told Tong Tong: Don't think that Dad didn't give you face at that time. If I had been partial to you, you would have lost many good partners. They will be afraid to play with you because I am partial to you. In that case, you will become lonely. ?

Tong Tong blinked and listened carefully. I can see from her eyes that she understands and understands what I said.

It was my lack of justifying a fault that made Tong Tong understand many basic moral requirements.

Once, my wife and I took Tong Tong to grandma's house to play. Tong Tong is very interested in her grandfather's reading glasses. She insisted on wearing them to play, but grandpa didn't stop her and let Tong Tong play.

10 minutes later, I heard a ringing sound in the kitchen and thought that Tong Tong must have broken his glasses. I went to the living room and criticized Tong Tong. Tong Tong, how can you play with grandpa's glasses? Grandpa can't wear it now. What should I do?

? No, it wasn't the child who fell. I accidentally fell to the ground myself. ? Grandpa held Tong Tong in his arms and said.

? That's right. I didn't fall. Grandpa has. ? Tong Tong said.

I was angry. I don't want Tong Tong to get into the bad habit of telling lies because of the old man's justifying his faults. I pulled Tong Tong into the study and gave her a good education.

Tong Tong admitted her mistake in front of me and asked me to buy a new pair of glasses for my grandfather with her pocket money.

Abandon? Expose your child's shortcomings and hit yourself in the face? Old ideas.

Protecting your own shortcomings is the catalyst for children's shortcomings. ? To err is human, it is normal for children to have shortcomings, and children are growing up in the process of constantly correcting their shortcomings. Parents can't turn a blind eye to cover up their mistakes for their children.

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