common goal
Work with children to set learning goals, such as going to a good university and having an ideal job. Common goals can stimulate the motivation of learning, which needs to be discussed by parents and children.
Cultivate interest
If children are not interested in a subject and are unwilling to learn, parents can find out their interests, guide them slowly and cultivate their interest in learning. For example, taking children to experience practical activities related to learning can ignite the passion of learning.
Praise and encouragement
Give timely praise and encouragement when children get academic achievements, and keep learning motivation. However, praise should avoid excessive praise and pay attention to the process, so as not to fall into the strange circle of "pressure learning". The attitude and spirit of encouraging children to study hard.
Moderate supervision
Supervise children's learning properly, but don't pursue results and achievements excessively. Supervisors should pay attention to the learning process and methods to help children develop good study habits and skills. Parents should be patient and don't take too tough measures.
Be an example.
Parents should love learning and keep learning new knowledge and skills. Become an example for children to learn, and children will be influenced and encouraged unconsciously. Parents should set an example.
Encourage social interaction.
Children should be encouraged to participate in some study groups or club activities and communicate with their peers with enthusiasm for learning. The competition and communication between them can generate motivation to promote learning and encourage each other.
Understanding and tolerance
Understand children's thoughts and feelings and provide them with emotional support. If a child is frustrated or tired of learning, parents should give him tolerance and comfort and encourage him to change his mind. Understanding and tolerance are the foundation of education.