On February 2, Hangzhou police found that three takeaway brothers ran red lights while on duty and punished them according to law. However, one of them said that he was in a hurry to send the bill and hoped to come back to accept the punishment after sending the bill. The police also agreed.

However, the takeaway brother chose to jump into the river after 1 hour, and was rescued by the relevant departments at the first time. Fortunately, after the takeaway brother was rescued ashore, there was no serious problem and he saved his precious life.

The traffic police took him back to the team and asked him to take a shower and change clothes. After that, I gave him a warm psychological counseling. Yes, the takeaway brother is physically strong, but psychologically so fragile.

Health is not just physical health.

Many times people will say that they are healthy people, but in fact, health is divided into physical health and mental health, and only the combination of the two aspects can be regarded as real health.

Because of my work, I often come into contact with some children and teenagers. Many of them will become sensitive and suspicious because of family education problems, and some even have personality defects.

Many children lack care in the family, and some even suffer from PUA, which makes these children have psychological problems more or less in the process of growing up, some are fragile, vulnerable to setbacks, some are irritable and irritable, and cannot control their emotions rationally.

Many family education only pays attention to children's academic performance, that is, exam-oriented education, but does not care about children's mental health, and can not reasonably guide children to ease their inner emotions.

School education is similar. Although many senior children may have been exposed to psychology courses, I think the most important thing is for parents to learn how to relieve their children's emotions.

Looking back, we can understand that the takeaway brother may have pressure in life besides work, but his way of facing pressure and relieving emotions is beyond our normal mental health.

We are all trying to live.

There is a song that sings very well? We are all living hard, waking up in the ups and downs and getting drunk? In fact, this is the normal life. A truly healthy person can be kind to others, but he can also be kind to himself, adapt to the environment well and analyze problems rationally.

Mentally healthy people are not without pain and trouble, but they can actively find new ways of unfavorable situations instead of indulging in that kind of pain and trouble.

I hope that the takeaway brother can re-examine his emotions after this incident, and I hope that he can relieve his depressed emotions in a more rational way in the future.