First of all, your child won't go to primary school until next year. I'm afraid your requirements for children should have reached the level of grade four or five in primary school. I'm so anxious. Developing children's intelligence too early may make them have no learning stamina, especially at the critical moment when the senior high school entrance examination requires more learning stamina. After all, children are children and don't understand the importance of learning. Need parents to guide slowly. It is good to realize it early, as long as he realizes it before the mid-term exam. If you put too much pressure on students too early, it will be more difficult to change their weariness. It is no exaggeration to say that it will make you more helpless.

Secondly, the requirements for children should be gradually improved, and it is difficult to reach a stable level. This is the most basic law of pedagogy. The ancients said that if you can't eat a fat man in one bite, you will destroy the seedlings. What is simple in the eyes of adults may be difficult in the eyes of children, at least not very simple. This contrast will make you feel that such a simple thing can't be done well, and the child is really stupid. But never consider the child's actual learning ability. Never let children subconsciously feel that they are really stupid, really can't learn well, and can't do their homework well. Parents' thoughts will exert a subtle influence on their children, so encouragement is essential. Let children learn with confidence, interest and a sense of accomplishment. If you make progress, praise your child even if you don't meet your psychological expectations. Appropriate material rewards are essential. Recently, there was a video in which a child stepped out of the relationship with his parents. You can watch it. Even if the child gets the certificate of progress, his heart seems to have turned around. The praise of the trend will definitely make children more confident to learn. Even eating a hamburger will make him remember it for a lifetime. On the contrary, children try to meet your psychological expectations without any praise, and they will remember it all their lives, just like my dad said that I would give 10 pocket money when I took the exam, but he finally broke his word. Even after 20 years, I will still talk about my dad.

Finally, it is completely understandable that parents are eager to make their children succeed, but please pay attention to the ways and means. Setting an example is the best way. Parents want their children to write good handwriting, at least not crooked melons and cracked dates. Practicing calligraphy with children will be the fastest way for children to grow up. If you want your child to learn music, you know nothing about it. Even if the child is wrong, how do you know? How to guide? How to help him overcome his learning difficulties? How can you meet a rainbow without paying?