However, many parents ignore that it is generally difficult for children to understand the moral of their parents' words because of the limitations of age, experience and cognition, and it is often difficult to achieve the desired results. Therefore, in the education of children, parents should not blindly reason, but master some parenting skills, so as to achieve better results and make children easier to accept and correct.
1.？ Try small mistakes to prevent big ones.
Sometimes, the language is weak, and personal experience is unforgettable and unforgettable. Therefore, parents should pay attention to guide their children, let them contact more things, and then let him know and understand some knowledge in his own experience. For example, children are interested in the steam coming out of the rice cooker and always want to touch it with their hands, but their parents say it will be hot and they can't touch it. Because it is difficult for a child to understand the meaning of scalding, it is often impossible to dispel his curiosity.
To this end, parents can find another way. For example, if a child touches the heating pipe with a small hand, the child will feel hot and quickly take his hand back. At this time, parents can tell their children "this is hot" and the white steam will be as hot as a radiator. If children are curious about white steam again, parents can take radiators as an example, and children will understand it easily and will not try.
2. Let children understand the truth in the feelings of adults.
Most children are good at reading words and deeds. He can feel what expression means that his parents are unhappy and angry, and what expression means that his parents are happy. Parents can also show their children what behaviors can't be done by changing their expressions, otherwise parents will be very angry and what actions the baby is doing is right, which makes mom and dad very happy.
If the child vomits while eating, Ma Bao should tell him with a straight face. If he doesn't like eating, he should tell his mother. Vomiting will make his mother very unhappy. Over time, children will gradually understand what they can and can't do and what will make their parents unhappy.
3. Let the children understand the truth in their parents' demonstration.
Sometimes, children can't understand their parents' language expression, but parents can make their children understand some truth through action demonstration. If the child plays with toys and can't operate them, let the car run. Parents can demonstrate more times. If children watch too much, they will learn slowly. This kind of education can often achieve better results than preaching, and children are more likely to imitate and accept it.