First of all, understand the child's feelings for his biological parents and allow the child to keep the position of his deceased relatives in his heart; Don't rush or force your child to accept a new "father" or "mother" who has no feelings for himself soon. The emotional connection between a child and his stepfather or stepmother needs a process of cultivation and formation.

Secondly, we should slowly guide our children to accept new "relatives" and elders, and let them understand that the departure of their blood-related relatives is a fact that no one can change. Although the new "relative" can't completely replace the biological parents, she (he) can indeed play the role of some parents.