There are three children playing in the Woods, all of whom let the branches hang their pants. Faced with the hole in the trouser leg and the frightened face of the child, the three mothers handled the matter in three different ways.
The first mother raised her hand and slapped the child, plus a loud reprimand. Then, she tied the hole tightly with a string like a sack, and the whole trouser leg was wrinkled. She also did not forget to severely warn the child: "Never play in the Woods again!"
The second mother did not fight or scold, but silently mended the hole one by one, leaving traces of needle and thread on her trousers.
The third mother comforted the child: "Never mind, which child is not fun?" Grandma said that your father was more naughty than you when he was a child. "She embroidered a beautiful little red flower on the hole with colored thread, as if there was a flower there.
Three different solutions to the same problem lead to three different results:
The first mother made the child feel fear and disappointment, and the child had to live under her compulsion;
The second mother is ordinary, and the child gets a natural living environment;
The third mother is an excellent educator. She used a flower to stimulate the children's beautiful imagination. Her smile gave them more tolerance and kept them confident and creative. In real life.
Life is an art, and family education should pay more attention to art. Sometimes a simple method of parents can affect a child's life. Parents who know how to live will never give up any chance to give their children hope. A tolerant smiling face is the driving force for their children's life progress.