Cruel education is not harmful to children, but it is good to be cruel when educating children, because this society ultimately needs us to face it ourselves, and parents can't always protect their children. Appropriate and cruel education methods do not mean that children need to be very harsh, but let them do something by themselves. I believe many parents can't stand that their children are hurt a little when they get along with them, and even worry that they will be hurt when they do something alone. This is because you are too soft-hearted to your child, so being cruel is to shape your child's ability to resist setbacks and let him learn to be independent.

First, let children learn to be independent. Proper care can help children learn to be independent. Many parents will help them do some small things when they grow up. When parents help their children do these little things, they actually ignore a problem. Children need independence and learn to take care of themselves. If parents have been helping their children and can't educate them, then he will only feel that since all parents have helped him, what else does he need to learn? Enjoy it. Moreover, parents will find it easier to educate their children when they are cruel enough to let them learn to be independent. This kind of education not only makes parents more relaxed, but also enables children to learn to be independent.

Second, parents cannot always protect their children. Everyone in society is an independent individual. In the end, he needs to face everything alone. Even if he is a child now and grows up in the future, he needs to face everything by himself in the workplace and at school. Parents can't always protect their children and keep them under their parents' protection. In that case, why don't we let the children accept this model as soon as possible, let them adapt themselves, let them learn to be independent and learn to deal with a problem by themselves.

If you teach your child slowly after he grows up, it will actually make him feel a certain gap, because parents were protecting him and helping him, but suddenly parents stopped treating their children like this. It is difficult for children to adapt for a while, and it will also make the parent-child relationship worse. Therefore, when the child is still young, we can be a little hard on the child and let him adapt to this way.

Third, the future is a cruel education for children to learn to face, which can make them braver. Faced with setbacks, he is more able to solve problems independently. In fact, this is a welfare for children. Children who grow up under the protection of their parents seem to be carefree and happy, but in fact, putting them in trouble can't be solved by himself, just like breaking their wings and preventing him from flying by himself.

Because in the future, all things have to be faced by the child himself. Now that the child is still young, parents can help him solve these things, but can parents really help him when the child grows up? This needs all parents to think clearly. When they want to understand this, they can understand the benefits of proper cruelty to children.