All parents want their children to succeed, so how to train them? As parents, we must first cultivate children's awareness of the pattern. We should make them understand that if they want to be a big tree, they should not mow grass, but should try to absorb knowledge and strive until they are capable. When making friends, no friend is too harsh, too sophisticated and easy to have no choice. When you meet bad people, you should get out in time and stop bad things in time.

As the saying goes, you can make money by following flies to find toilets, bees to find flowers and jobs. The so-called pattern refers to the layout of a person's psychological elements such as vision, mind and courage. With a big pattern, we can have a big perspective, make great achievements and be a person with great courage.

The pattern is invisible and intangible, but it plays a great role. Will guide children to make continuous efforts and progress. For children, this model may be incomprehensible. We can simply say that we should pursue, have ideals and have goals.

What should parents do? First of all, parents should let their children see the outside world more. Children's horizons will widen, the world they see will become bigger, and the pattern will naturally become bigger; Secondly, try to expose children to some new things, cultivate their curiosity and make them realize that there are all kinds of things in the world; Finally, let children read more books that can cultivate their big pattern, so that children's pattern awareness will gradually become bigger. Pattern, he is definitely the best helper on the road of children's life, and can directly determine how far the children's future "life road" can go. Let's make the children's pattern higher together, and believe that paying will eventually pay off.