Passive education
First, the importance of continuing education
? Education needs persistence. In our education, I think it can be divided into passive education and active education. Passive education is more reflected in the education in the learning stage, while self-education is the education after graduation, which can also be said to be our self-improvement and self-cultivation. In my opinion, graduation is not the end of study, but the beginning of study and practice. It's also time to apply what you have learned. Only when you step into the job can you test your learning achievements and correct your learning problems. And this correction is learning, and learning at this time is re-education.
? Now the embodiment of these two kinds of education has great disadvantages, which is also an unreasonable phenomenon. Children who study at school are disgusted, but those who have already taken part in the work attach importance to education and study. The emergence of this problem is mostly related to family education. We all know the theory that 5+2=0. But now classes have been suspended for a month because of the epidemic. So many children have no confidence in learning, especially those who don't pay enough attention to family education. This time, it happened to two children in my class.
Second, the lost child.
? On the afternoon of March 29th, Star's father called and said that the child had gone out to work with others and asked me if she was close to those students at school on weekdays. I also gave the contact information of the relevant students. However, parents also said that they did not understand the situation, and there was nothing wrong with the children at home. The next day, I learned that I went out to work with a child from another class, and my parents chased me back. I think there are two reasons why this child is in this situation. One is the cause of the epidemic. Without the supervision of teachers, they lose the motivation to study, and their parents are indifferent to it. Parents' attitude is the main problem. According to her parents' description, everything was accommodating to her in daily life, and even the online class was finished in two sentences, and she didn't take it to heart at all. Because in the eyes of parents, this kind of class is ineffective. It is precisely because of this attitude of parents that children do not attach importance to learning. In addition, parents are too relaxed with their children on weekdays, so there is such a dramatic scene. I remember contacting my parents to apply for points subsidy last semester, and my parents gave me the answer whether I could apply for the money. If I can't apply, I don't have to bother applying. It can also be seen from here that the attitude of this parent will have a great impact on the growth of children. So the problem with this kind of education is that parents' awareness is not enough. Once you leave the supervision of the school teacher, this kind of problem will appear, just a matter of time. In addition to family education, it is the understanding of parents and their own reasons.
? Last night, I received a phone call from a child's mother, asking if I could refund some tuition fees now, saying that the child had not attended classes during this time. This made me a little confused, and it took me a long time to understand what my parents meant. What parents want to express is whether they can apply for a refund of some tuition fees if their children drop out of school without studying. He wants me to help him finish it. Said he couldn't come from his hometown. It is understood that she has been gone since last year, and the child now lives with her grandmother. In fact, as soon as we hear this question, we know that children must be tired of learning because they lack the care of their parents. In fact, the children's performance in school is still good. I didn't answer whether parents can drop out of school. I asked her why. That's how my mother learned that it was because of this epidemic that the child became bad. Learned to drink, smoke and fall in love. These problems are all thorny issues. Parents said that they were worried that they would have conflicts with the school in the future. Parents talk about this problem, which shows that their parents' ideas are not wrong. In fact, I knew that this child was divorced by her parents, and her mother took their three sisters. My mother went back to her hometown last year because of work problems. The child has these problems because of lack of care. It is not difficult to find that children from single-parent families usually have these problems.
? Moreover, this child is the deputy class in our class, so I will give her more care at school without any problems. Once you leave the class's attention, you will have some anxiety. Therefore, it will cause her to breed some bad habits, and the main parents are not around, once she is wronged or frustrated in life. She will do something that doesn't match her identity, and she will seek safety in some adult ways. After detailed communication with my parents, I will not drop out of school until the end of this semester. If I really can't, let the child come back to her. Although I can stop her from doing bad things at school, I can't help it at home. The best way is to be with mom. The root of these problems is insecurity and worry.
Third, education is lifelong.
? Through the questions of these two students, we can see that education needs to be lasting. It's not that you just taught her to study hard at that stage. Lifelong education is needed on the way to study. We can educate ourselves after work, but we still need our parents to follow us all the time during school. I think this is also the reason why the country advocates parents to hold certificates, and its fundamental purpose is to remind parents to pay attention to their children's lifelong education.