Respect the child's growth process.
Parents should avoid over-interpreting their children's behaviors, and don't easily label their children with morality or morality. This practice may make children feel deeply humiliated, hurt their self-esteem, and then destroy the parent-child relationship.
The importance of harmonious parent-child relationship
Good family education is inseparable from a strong parent-child relationship. Without this cornerstone, no matter how brilliant the educational concept is, it is difficult for children to really accept it. Parents should pay attention to communication with their children and establish a harmonious parent-child relationship.
The ambivalence behind lying.
The fact that children choose to lie is actually full of contradictions. Parents should understand their children's psychology, not punish them too severely, but guide them on the right path.
Permission and tolerance
Parents should allow their children to make mistakes and give them understanding and tolerance when they make mistakes. Excessive punishment may lead children to choose to lie rather than tell the truth, because in their view, telling the truth may lead to more severe scolding.
Encourage and guide
After children calm down, parents should encourage them to tell the truth and understand why they lie. It is necessary to affirm the attitude of children who dare to admit their mistakes, and at the same time let them know that their mistakes need to bear the consequences.
Clear reward and punishment
Rewards and punishments should be clear and treated differently. If children can take the initiative to admit their mistakes after realizing their lies, parents should give affirmation and encourage their children to continue to be honest.
♀? Strategies for detecting lies
Parents should directly point out their children's lies and avoid exploratory inquiries. Doing so can not only prevent children from continuing to lie, but also help to maintain mutual trust.