Life perception story and truth
A short story, a simple fact.
Once upon a time, two hungry people were blessed by an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish and didn't taste the meat of the fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod, and walked hard to the seaside step by step, but when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.
Two hungry people also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from their elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family, children and a fishing boat made by themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.
A person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; One should aim high, but face the real life.
Experience: Only by organically combining ideal with reality can you become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life enlightenment.
Short story two, the director is useless
There was a Lu man who was good at weaving straw sandals and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wants to move to Vietnam. His friend said to him, "If you go to Vietnam, you will be poor." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used to walk, but Vietnamese people are used to walking barefoot; White silk is used to make hats, but Vietnamese people are used to long hair. With your strengths, go to places that are not needed, so is it possible to keep yourself from being poor? "
Experience: If a person wants to develop his special skills, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment. If it is divorced from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value. Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of society and give full play to our own specialties.
Story 3: Kangaroos and Cages
One day, the city zoo found that the kangaroo escaped from the cage, so it held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cage was too low. So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 10 meter to 20 meters. As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos were still running outside, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.
I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters.
One day, giraffes and some kangaroos were chatting. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" ? Asked the giraffe. "It's hard to say. Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!
Experience: there are "beginning and end", "weight" and "weight". Closing the door is the origin, heightening the cage is the end, and it doesn't matter if you abandon the origin and pursue the end.
Story 4: Bian Que's medical skills
King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que, "Your three brothers are all good at medical skills, which one is the best?"
Bian Que replied, "The eldest brother is the best, the second brother is the second, and I am the worst.
King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?
Bian Que replied, "My brother treated the disease before it started. Because most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his fame can't spread; Brother Zhong treated the disease at the early stage. Most people think that he can only treat minor illnesses, so his reputation only extends to his own village. When my illness is serious, I will treat it. Most people have seen me perform major operations, such as pricking a needle tube on the meridian to bleed blood and applying medicine to the skin, so they think that my medical skill is brilliant and my reputation is famous all over the country.
Experience: control after the event is not as good as control in the event, and control in the event is not as good as control in advance.
Story 5, sudden change in salary
A guest visited someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise it might catch fire later, but the host didn't give any indication.
Soon, the owner's house caught fire, and the neighbors rushed to put out the fire. Finally, the fire was put out, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle to entertain his neighbors and rewarded them for their contribution to the fire fighting, but he didn't invite anyone who suggested that he move the wood and change the chimney.
Someone said to the host, "if you had listened to that gentleman, you wouldn't have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage." It is very strange now that the person who gave you advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest! " The host suddenly realized that he quickly invited the guest who had given the suggestion to have a drink.
Experience: prevention is more important than cure, which can prevent problems before they happen, and it is better than treating them after chaos occurs.
Second, life philosophy stories and feelings
1, short story of life philosophy Part I: One kiss and one sparse.
Zen master Jiashan Shanhui and Zen master Shen Ying in Dingshan talked about Buddhism while walking. Zen master Ding Shan said: "If people can always realize that everything in the world is illusory and not even persistent in Buddhism, they can transcend life and death." Jiashan also expressed his insights not to be outdone: "If people can see their Buddha nature in the flow of life and death, they will not be confused by life and death, and they will be able to transcend life and death."
We went to Dameishan to meet Damei Master of the Dharma Field and expressed our opinions. Jia Shan asked Damei Changfa, "We don't know whose opinion is right?" "One kiss and one sparse." It means a right and a bad. Jia Shan asked, "Who is right?" The master of Damei Dafang replied, "Go back first and talk about it tomorrow."
Early the next morning, Master Jiashan went to ask Master Damei, "Which statement is right?" Master Delta often shouts: "The right person will not ask, and the person who comes to ask is wrong."
The life perception of Zen is a method that transcends both sides, does not stand or abolish, and points directly at people's hearts. Jia Shan believes that to transcend life and death, you must have a Buddha in your heart. Ding Shan believes that to get rid of life and death, even the concept of "Buddha" should be eliminated. When there is nothing, it is like saying "there is only half a glass of water left" and saying "there is still half a glass of water", but the views are different.
Jia Shan didn't understand, so he had to ask right and wrong, so he fell into the difference between words and thoughts. No wonder the Zen master of Damei Dafang called him wrong. When Zen asks right and wrong, it falls into binary opposition. Therefore, if Zen scholars insist on the distinction between good and bad, right and wrong, right and wrong, and size, it runs counter to Zen.
2. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 2: Zen on the Water Car
Five Elephant Monks feel thirsty when they walk. A young man in Lu Yu stepped on a waterwheel in a pond, so he asked the young man for a glass of water to drink. The young man said in an envious tone, "Zen master, if one day I see through the world of mortals, I will definitely become a monk like you." However, after I became a monk, I don't want to live without a fixed place and wander around like you. I will find a place to live in seclusion, meditate well and stop showing my face. "
The Zen master smiled and said, "Oh! Then when will you see through the world of mortals? " The young man replied, "I know the nature of waterwheels in our area best." Everyone in the village uses this as the main water source. If I find someone who can take care of my waterwheel, I can find my own way out and become a monk. " Master Wuxiang said, "You know the waterwheel best. Please tell me, what will happen if the waterwheel is completely immersed in water or completely out of water? "
The young man said: "the waterwheel is completely immersed in the water, not only can it not turn, but it will even be washed away by the rapids;" Completely out of water, the car can't get water. Wu Xiang, a Buddhist monk, said, "The relationship between the waterwheel and the water flow has explained the relationship between the individual and the world: if a person enters the WTO completely and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed into the world of mortals by the wave of five desires; If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle. After listening to this, the young man said happily, "Zen master, what you said really benefited me a lot." "
Life has learned that if a person completely enters the WTO and jumps into the rivers and lakes, he will inevitably be washed away by the tide of five desires. If you are born pure and pretend to be lofty, then life must be rootless and idle.
3. Short Story of Philosophy of Life 3: Master Hongyi Bows
In the world, being afraid is afraid of being serious. Master Hongyi (Li Shutong) is the most serious, and everything is serious. Zhao Yan, the grandson of Ye Shengtao, wrote in The Old Man that once he was giving a music lesson to a student, a group of students surrounded him to watch him play the piano. A student farted and distracted everyone. After class, Li Shutong said seriously, "It's convenient in the future, please go outside." Say that finish and bow deeply to everyone.
In class, a classmate slammed the door when he went out. He immediately caught up with him, kindly asked him not to do this, and bowed seriously as usual. The students said that Miss Li's bow was stronger than anything else.
A student stole something from a classmate, and Xia Zun, the supervisor, asked for advice. Li said it was because the teacher didn't educate well. The invigilator should apologize to the students first, and then announce that the thief will come forward. If no one comes forward, the teacher will apologize and commit suicide. This gentleman is joking. If he speaks so seriously, the students will definitely stand up. Xia is Li's good friend. Although he agrees with Li, he is worried that the students will not stand up. Li Shutong said seriously, "Then commit suicide. Don't cheat the students." After a day of hesitation, I took another approach.
Liu Zhiping, a musical descendant of Li Shutong, has no financial resources to study in Japan. In order to help his disciple and reassure him, Li Shutong wrote a letter to his disciple seriously, detailing his income and expenses, which reassured Liu Zhiping. Li Shutong later became a monk. Before becoming a monk, he prepared a large sum of money for Liu to study until graduation. When the money was confiscated, Li wrote and said, "If I can't borrow this money, I will still work until you graduate."
The life experiences of the above four cases fully show that Li Shutong is "serious in everything" and "the most serious". In this regard, people may have different views on whether he is suspected of "making a mountain out of a molehill" and whether he treats life with awe and rashness. However, its earnest spirit is commendable and very human. The last example is amazing.
4. Life Philosophy Story 4: The Dream of Three Trees
Once upon a time, there were three trees. They all have their own dreams. The first tree wants to be a treasure chest, which contains all the precious things in the world, such as gold, silver and jewelry. The second tree wants to be built into a gorgeous ship, carrying the emperor and dignitaries. The third tree wants to grow into the tallest tree in the world, so that it can be closer to God.
Many years passed and a group of loggers came. The first tree was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to a carpenter. " This is good news, because carpenters can make treasure boxes. The second tree was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "This tree looks very strong. I want to sell it to the shipyard. " This is good news, because the shipyard will be a big ship.
The third tree was very scared when it saw the woodcutter coming towards it, because as long as the woodcutter cut it down, it meant that its dream was shattered. However, it was cut down, and the woodcutter said, "I haven't decided what to do with it yet." Let's cut it down first. "
Have the dreams of the first tree and the second tree come true? The first tree was made into a manger by a carpenter to hold horse feed. The second tree was made into a fishing boat by the shipyard and used to fish for fishermen. Their ending, like the third tree, is far from their dreams.
However, one day, two people passed by the manger, a couple. The woman gave birth to a boy, who was put in a manger. The first tree suddenly realized that the boy was the couple's most precious treasure in this world.
A few years later, several people climbed onto the fishing boat that was put on hold by the sea. From their conversation, the second tree learned that one of these people was a king who had just been defeated. After rescuing the fishing boat, the king made a comeback and became one of the greatest kings in history. After the local church was built, the third tree was made into a cross. The church is the closest place to God in the world.
Life Comprehension When dreams deviate from our pre-designed path, don't be disheartened, because sometimes dreams will come true in unexpected ways.
5, life philosophy short story 5: Good and evil are only in an instant.
An old monk sat on the side of the road, his eyes closed, his legs crossed, his hands clasped under his skirt, lost in thought. Suddenly, his meditation was interrupted. Interrupted by the samurai's hoarse and pleading voice, "Old man, tell me what heaven is!"! What is hell! "
The old monk didn't respond, as if he had heard nothing. But gradually he opened his eyes and a smile appeared on his mouth. The warriors stood by, anxious as ants on hot bricks. "You want to know the secrets of heaven and hell?" The old monk said, "You are really a rude person, with muddy hands and feet, unkempt hair and dirty beard." The sword is rusty, and you can tell at a glance that it is not well kept. You ugly, your mother dressed you up as a clown, and you came to ask me the secret of heaven and hell? "
The samurai cursed savagely, and then "brushed" his sword on the old monk's head. His face was flushed and the veins stood out on his neck, and he was about to cut off the old monk's head. The sword was about to fall when the old monk suddenly whispered, "This is hell." For an instant, the samurai was amazed and awed, and was full of pity and respect for the old monk who dared to teach him a lesson with his life. His sword stopped in mid-air and his eyes were filled with tears of gratitude. "This is heaven." The old monk said.
Life's perception of good and evil is often between thoughts. All evil thoughts, words and deeds are hell for yourself and others; All good thoughts, good words and good deeds are paradise for yourself and others. If everyone can abandon evil and do good, even hell can become heaven. Therefore, everyone should sit still and think about themselves, always look at their hearts, get rid of evil thoughts in their hearts, and give up words and deeds that hurt people. Let your heart become pure, and you will get real inner peace and tranquility.
(2) Life stories plus insights to expand reading:
The story of life value: don't let yesterday's depression overshadow tomorrow's dream! At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.
Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands.
He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.
"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless.
But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or untidy, you are still priceless. "Tip: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in what friends we make, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!
Three short stories about the philosophy of life
A short story about the philosophy of life
Life is like jade
Once upon a time, a wise man accepted many students. One of the students asked him, "Teacher, can you tell me something about my value?" The teacher took out a stone and said, "Do something for me first, and then I will tell you the value of life." . If you take this stone to the market, you can't sell it at any price. "
Students take stones to the market to sell, and some people are willing to pay 2 yuan for this stone. No sooner had the man paid the price than some people came. Everyone said that this stone is really bright, and the price has started to increase. They always raise the price of stones to 65,438+00 yuan. The student happily went back to the teacher and said, "Teacher, you can actually sell this stone 10 yuan!" "The teacher said," If you take this stone to the gold market again, no matter how much it costs, it won't sell. "
When the students arrived at the gold market, an old man saw the color of the stone and said it must be the treasure inside. Everyone began to compete for this stone and raised it to the price of 1000 yuan. The students were a little tempted and happily ran back to the teacher and said, "It's amazing that you can sell this stone for 6.5438+0 million yuan!" The teacher smiled and said, "If you take this stone to the jewelry market, you can't sell it no matter how much others pay."
Students took stones to the jewelry market, and when they sold them, someone offered 65,438+10,000. In the blink of an eye, the price of stone has risen to 300 thousand yuan. The student resisted the great temptation to go back and said to the teacher, "I didn't expect you to have such a treasure!" " My task has been completed, so you should tell me the value of this stone. The teacher said to the students, "This stone is really priceless." There are precious jade in it, but you don't know the goods. Maximum value 10 yuan. "
Philosophy of life: In fact, everyone is a piece of jade. We should look at ourselves as a jeweler looks at jade. If someone polishes himself, he becomes a piece of jade. The better he polishes himself, the higher his value. Some people guard their own jade and don't polish it all their lives. He has been a worthless stone all his life. This case inspires us to think about the connotation of life value, that is, what is the value of life? What is the key to realize the value of life? How do you view your life value?
(3) Extended reading of life stories and opinions:
Philosophical motto
Mistakes make you smart. -Wang Anshi
People can't * * *. -Mencius
Since ancient times, no one has died in life, leaving a heart that shines through history. -Wen Tianxiang
One hundred studies must be identified first. -Zhu
Opportunity knocks only once. -Lu Duoxun
Will lies in tempering, and success lies in persistence. Zhou Haizhong
Moral character should be noble; Life should be honest; Mind your manners. You should be polite. -Montesquieu
Suffering is the teacher of life. -Balzac
Everything about people should be beautiful; Face, clothes, heart, thoughts. -Chekhov
Fourth, the short story of life philosophy should not be too long, plus real feelings …
At first, two hungry people got a gift from an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish and didn't taste the meat of the fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod, and walked hard to the seaside step by step, but when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.
Two hungry people also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from their elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family, children and a fishing boat made by themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.
Feeling: a person only cares about immediate interests, and what he gets will eventually be short-term happiness; One should aim high, but face the real life. Only by organically combining ideal with reality can we become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life enlightenment.
Five short stories of life philosophy and feelings
My father just died, leaving my mother alone at home, and my heart is always uneasy. A lonely old man in an empty room will inevitably be moved by the sight and think of my father. On the first night of parting, I sat by the fire and stayed with her until late at night. I repeatedly reminded her that people can't come back from the dead, so don't be too sad. It is the best mourning for the dead that the living can live well. "If there is any movement at night, don't come out. Anyway, there is nothing valuable to steal at home. " I said.
"You can go safely." Mom said. "What's the matter, your uncle's brothers will come and help."
When I was a child, my impression of my hometown was that at ten o'clock in the evening, there were shouts of adults calling their children home for dinner. At that time, people used to come out from home, holding sea bowls and standing at the gate eating and pulling. The bowl is full of sweet potato soup, and some will put a few beans in it. The beans were squashed on the mill. At that time, few people would eat meat, and anyone who ate meat could smell the fragrance outside half the village.
Before the bowl was put down here, someone began to curse the street there. Those who scold the streets are all women, old and young. Aunties curse the level and rhythm of the street, just like singing or reciting poetry. The reason for cursing the street is very simple, nothing more than losing a chicken or a duck. But no matter how you scold, no one has ever scolded a lost chicken or duck for coming back. For some reason, there are many thieves in the village. A spade is placed at the door and is often stolen. Some cooked sweet potato soup, but I don't know when even the pot was taken away.
"It's all over now, and there aren't so many thieves." Mom said. "People still steal because they are poor." Speaking of thieves, my mother talked about Mrs. Xia again.
Mrs. Xia is a single-family family in the village, and the population is not very rich. Master Xia has passed away, and his son separated soon after he got married. Because Mrs. Xia is diligent and capable, and she cares about her family, life is ok. She is also willing to help others. If they have something to do, they have a good reputation in the village. Although they are single-family families, no one takes them as physical surnames.
After dinner, Mrs. Xia sat under the dim kerosene lamp for a while. Seeing that there was nothing to tidy up, she blew out the lamp and went to bed early. It was the fifteenth day of late autumn, when the moon was full, and the moonlight shone on the bed through the narrow wooden window lattice. Mrs. Xia is still not asleep.
"giggle-giggle-"Mrs Xia heard chickens whispering in the yard. "There are thieves." Summer think so, too, so she quickly put on her clothes and got out of bed. She was afraid to open the door, so she looked out of the window. Is a thief! She saw a man bent down to pick up the chicken coop and tiptoed to the gate. "It's Bauer!"
Because of the bright moonlight, she saw Bauer's face when he bent down. She was about to cough twice to scare him away, but she didn't cough. She remembered that Bauer's son was very ill and borrowed money everywhere these days. He won't steal her chicken unless he has to. Mrs. Xia thought.
The next night, Mrs. Xia scolded the street. That can't be called street, it should be said that shouting street is more accurate.
"You stole my chicken, I saw it-I won't scold you or curse you. I know you were in a hurry to steal it with money. You sold the chicken and spent money, just to send back the steelyard on the cage. I borrowed the scale and have to return it to others. If you don't sell the cage, give it back to me together so that I can raise chickens again. "
Another day later, the thief really returned the scale and cage to Mrs. Xia and put a box of cigarettes in the cage. I wrote another note to Mrs. Xia.
"Thank goodness, it can be sent back!" Mrs. Xia said happily. Mrs. Xia believes in Jesus. Every time I meet something happy, I will say a word of thanks to God.
I don't believe in gods and ghosts, but I believe in the principles of being a man in the Bible. Believe in the idealism of retribution for good and evil mentioned above. Mrs. Xia's kindness may be inseparable from her belief in Jesus.
Mrs. Xia stopped shouting in the street. She showed this note to her son.
"Mrs. Xia, I stole your chicken. I stole it and sold it. I really need money. Six chickens were sold to 94 yuan. I lent it to you, and I'll pay you back when I have money. "
The son asked her why she didn't shout a few times to scare the thief away. "When everyone is in trouble, is it important to see a child or a few chickens?" Mrs. Xia said.
Days are like running water, flowing away slowly, diluting people's memories. Mrs. Xia has forgotten about that. One day, while she was cleaning the yard, suddenly something was thrown into the yard. It passed over her head and almost hit her. She stopped and looked intently. It turned out to be a cloth bag. What is this? Mrs. Xia thought about it and bent down to pick up the cloth. "My Lord!" Mrs. Xia muttered to herself.
-ninety-four dollars wrapped in a cloth bag.
Mrs. Xia put down her broom and hurried back to the house to collect the money, then knelt on the ground and prayed.
The stars have turned and the years have changed. In a blink of an eye, more than 20 years have passed, and Mrs. Xia is also over 70. The health of the elderly is getting worse every day, and so is Mrs. Xia. Family is not what it used to be. Although she prayed every day, it didn't help.
In contrast, the situation of Ergarbo is completely different. If you are poor, you want to change, and if you change, you will pass. Bauer's son has been admitted to the university and studied medicine in the provincial capital. The annual study fee is more than 10,000. In order to ensure his son's study expenses, Bauer did his best. /kloc-around 0/990, he borrowed tens of thousands of yuan from his relatives and bought a big truck to start transportation. After paying off the loan, he bought several more cars. Soon, another automobile transportation company was established. In this way, Bauer's family has undergone earth-shaking changes and became an upstart at that time. My son lived up to expectations. After graduating from college, he was assigned to the county people's hospital as the director of internal medicine.
On this day, Mrs. Xia felt a little uncomfortable, and going to the village clinic for a few days had no effect. So she asked her grandson to take her to the county hospital for examination. This investigation doesn't matter, it scares the old lady Xia. It turned out that she had lung cancer. The doctor didn't tell her right away, but she heard about it later. The doctor just said that she had to be hospitalized.
Mrs. Xia is in hospital.
Bauer's son is busy with all kinds of hospitalization procedures.
The first thing he does after work every day is to see Mrs. Xia first. During Mrs. Xia's hospitalization for more than a month, he went to see her several times almost every day.
"Old lady, your life is really good! Look how good your grandson is to you! " A little nurse who didn't know the inside story said to Mrs. Xia with a smile.
Mrs. Xia smiled and nodded. "My grandson got off. He is not my grandson, but the child next door. " Mrs. Xia said.
"That's not your grandson. How can he be so good to you? " The little nurse asked incredulously.
Mrs. Xia was speechless and didn't know how to answer. You can't tell anyone about that. She just smiled and didn't answer. But his face is very happy. Bao's son knew about it and later received a letter from his father.
That year, he was ill in hospital. The family was so poor that my father borrowed all the money from relatives and friends and made up 300 yuan. It's troublesome to borrow this money, but it's easy to spend and it's soon spent. The hospital began to urge them to pay, and they had to go out. At this time, his condition became more serious. Helpless, my father had to steal it. If it weren't for the stolen six chickens, if it weren't for the 94 yuan, they would have been thrown out of the hospital. Maybe he won't be here today.
The hospitalization fee in the hospital is very high. After staying in the hospital for more than a month, Mrs. Xia went home. The hospital is unwilling to stay and treat incurable diseases. Bauer's son insists on going home once a week and brings some necessary medicine needles to Mrs. Xia every time. According to the doctor's judgment, Mrs. Xia's life span will not exceed two years at most. However, no one expected a miracle to happen. Under the careful care of Bauer's son, Mrs. Xia's condition has not deteriorated, but has gradually improved.
Mrs. Xia lived 82 years, seven or eight years longer than the doctor said.
For a long time, my mother often told me these stories. At that time, I didn't know what these stories meant to me. I don't know what she is thinking, and of course, I won't think about it. These things are so boring. Out of respect for her, I will listen to anything she says.
Mother has no culture and doesn't know how to teach her children. When I get good grades, she won't even give me two poached eggs, and of course there won't be a few cents reward. I don't know if it's conditional or she's too stingy. What she gave me were these small and trivial stories that happened around me. These stories are simple, colorless, without ups and downs of emotional entanglements and ups and downs of the story. She wants to use these trivial stories to guide me and silence me. She hardly touched anyone except herself. However, every story is like a distinctive sign of a crossroads in life, leading me from childhood to adulthood and from naivety to maturity.
Mrs Xia has been dead for many years, and now the children don't know her. Sometimes, some old people will think of her occasionally and may say, "Mrs. Xia is really a good person."
Every year at the end of December in Tomb-Sweeping Day and the lunar calendar, he and his son burn a knife paper in front of Grandma Xia's grave. I've tried my best to imagine Mrs. Xia, but it's getting blurred-she's just an ordinary mother. She gradually became some abstract concepts in my mind: kindness and kindness. However, she taught me a truth about being a man:
Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.