Educating children is a top priority for families, especially in this era when eugenics are very important. Because people deeply understand that the competition between the current and future living environment is getting bigger and bigger, and the principle of not advancing or retreating makes people afraid to relax the pace of learning. Adults should make progress, especially children. So many families will put a lot of thought and energy into educating their children. In order to ensure that their children are excellent in all aspects, they can be more competitive when they step into society in the future.
However, in addition to knowledge learning, comprehensive quality education is equally important for a child's growth, that is, morality and IQ must be excellent at the same time to become talents needed by society. Parents play a vital role in appraising a child's comprehensive quality. The so-called Taoist parents are the children's first teachers and the guides of their three views. There is an old saying? What kind of parents raise what kind of children? The old man's words actually come from the summary of life experience.
Therefore, when educating their children, parents should not put all their strength on their children, but always look at themselves. If parents only convey what they want their children to do or who they want to be through language, or put forward various requirements, but parents themselves have not achieved or met these requirements, then this kind of education will only make children feel that parents are imposing on themselves. If parents can do it before educating their children, it is a living example, and the power of example can be highlighted. Therefore, on the way to educate children, it is more important for parents to cultivate themselves than to cultivate their children.