How to educate lazy children? Many people are lazy now. Lazy people in life are really different, but the endings are probably the same. A lazy person drags his feet in life. For example, save money for washing clothes, don't sweep the floor and so on. How can we educate lazy children?
How to educate lazy children 1 1, strictly manage children, and psychologically establish a sense of discipline, responsibility and obligation from an early age? Unfortunately, my life is getting better and better, but my children are spoiled and spoiled. Practice has proved that today's children, especially spoiled children, must be taken good care of, and it is too late to leave them alone.
The important education is to cultivate children's life ideals and work hard for them. Of course, ideals can be divided into short-term goals and long-term goals. When children work hard for short-term goals and look forward to their ideals in life. For them, good food is already dispensable.
Parents should not spoil. Education experts say that if you want to destroy your child, then you can give him everything he wants. Most doters belong to parents who meet all the requirements of their children. To meet the unreasonable demands of children is to spoil or indulge.
Professor Yang Yongming, a famous family education expert, said that the secret of all family education lies in proper love. To meet the unreasonable demands of children, unprincipled love is against "appropriateness". Lazy parents, if you can't cure your doting, children's lazy lifestyle can't be eliminated.
Parents can help their children to arrange their time reasonably and let them know how to plan their own affairs. For children, laziness means finding natural enemies when studying, because such performance will make children idle, have a bad spirit in class and don't like doing homework.
I don't like reviewing my lessons either, which is very bad for children's learning and growth. In fact, children's laziness is inseparable from life. As long as they develop a regular rhythm of life, they can correct their lazy habits. I would rather leave everything at home to my parents than do it myself.
At this time, parents can let their children do something they like, and then the children will focus on it. Over time, children's lazy habits will change, and more importantly, children will develop a good habit of loving labor. If you want to change your child's laziness, you must help your child overcome dependence.
How to educate a lazy child? First of all, parents should realize that there are problems in the process of educating him.
My own educational methods and concepts must be corrected.
Children must do their own thing.
For example, when children are very young, many parents will buy many toys for their children. When children are not playing, be sure to let them tidy up by themselves. This habit should be formed from a very young age.
Another example is sorting out schoolbags, so that children should learn to sort out their schoolbags from kindergarten. Even if the child forgets to bring something the next day, don't go to school to send it to the child and let him be scolded by the teacher. Let him know that laziness is to bear the consequences of laziness.
For example, I wash my socks at night, and I have to clean up my room if it is messy. Let him know his own business and do it by himself. Only in this way can he form a good habit of independence.
3. Let children undertake family work properly.
For example, before eating, take out the dishes and chopsticks, and sweep the floor when it is dirty. Let him know that as a member of the family, he is also responsible and should do his duty well. Only in this way can a child become a responsible person.
For many families with better conditions, children grow up in a good environment and are more likely to spoil their children.
Therefore, we might as well take our children to experience life outdoors, because outdoor sports help to cultivate their spirit of hard work and hard work.
Everyone must have seen a popular variety show "Metamorphosis" in Hunan Province, which is a documentary program of youth inspirational life role exchange that pays attention to the education and growth of contemporary China teenagers from the perspective of care and reflection.
Most of the programs are about rural children and urban children exchanging roles and experiencing different lives and roles. Many children who grew up in doting cities have learned a lot in this process and realized the difficulties of their parents.
How can lazy children educate 3 1 and limit the supply of delicious food? If they want to eat more delicious food, they must do housework and exchange their labor for delicious food.
Reduce the food supply by 80%, make children feel uncomfortable and anxious, and have a stronger desire for food. At this time, parents told these children that if they want to eat again, they must mop the floor, clean up the room, learn to cook and buy food. In this way, in the pursuit of food, children's labor consciousness and habits are gradually developed. Let them know that food is not taken for granted.
2. Give proper education.
You can tell your child how hard it is for parents to earn money and how much it costs them to eat endless meals. You can also tell your children that if you control your diet and stick to it for a long time, there will be a lot of savings at home. This savings can be used for traveling, and it can also be used to pay off the mortgage, so as to reduce the pressure on parents to repay the loan.
Let children realize the serious consequences of laziness with the fate of eternal laziness. I believe that the story of hometown genealogy should be a typical one. There are such people and stories everywhere. The lazy people recorded in books, the lazy people that children can see and hear, these stories will make some children realize.
The more important education is to cultivate children's life ideals and work hard for them. Of course, ideals can be divided into short-term goals and long-term goals. When children work hard for short-term goals and look forward to their ideals in life. For them, food is already dispensable.
How to educate people who don't like learning?
This is almost the basic dilemma of current education. In the current educational environment, it is difficult for students to love learning from the heart.
For this almost unsolvable topic, Jiang Haizhi can only try to talk about his personal humble opinion.
1. Teachers and parents should love learning.
At present, the strangest phenomenon is that teachers and parents who almost never take the initiative to study are pressing students and children to study hard all day. As far as Chinese teachers are concerned, Chinese teachers who almost never read or write ask students to read and write all day.
Practice speaks louder than words. Some teachers and parents spend their spare time chasing plays, playing cards, playing ball games and playing mobile phones. And little study or research. In this way, the oral education of teachers and parents to students and children is very pale.
If children want to learn, our teachers and parents should first set an example. We have some excellent Chinese teachers who insist on reading and writing, and have the goal of reading and writing every month every year. They often share their books with students and show them their articles. These Chinese teachers educate their students with their own practical actions, and reading and writing can truly become a way of life.
The current Chinese curriculum standard requires that a certain number of famous books must be read in different learning periods, and a must-read bibliography and a recommended bibliography have been set up. In junior high school, the curriculum standard lists 12 must-read masterpieces. If our parents can read a famous book with their children and share their reading experience with each other, I believe the children's reading enthusiasm will definitely improve a lot.
2. Orientation education.
We can educate children to love learning from two aspects: the interest of knowledge itself and the effectiveness of improving test scores. In fact, any subject, if really learned, is interesting. This is the characteristic of knowledge itself.
Confucius pointed out more than two thousand years ago that "the good are not as good as the happy". Without knowledge, it is boring. If our teachers want students to like their subjects, we must first show their interest in the subject and let students enjoy it deeply.