Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
3, between our own people, any frills and bad temper will do; The closer you smile, the more polite you are, and the deeper your mutual suspicion or resentment. ? When quarreling, the first speaker may not have the upper hand, and then the one who keeps silent is the winner. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
In front of the beloved man, every woman has the stunt of rejuvenation. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
5. This diploma seems to have the function of the leaf in Adam and Eve's lower body, which can cover up shame and ugliness; A small square paper can cover up a person's emptiness and stupidity. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
Generally speaking, learning is something cultivated by two or three simple-minded people in an old house in the middle of nowhere, and the emergence of the market will become popular learning-Qian Zhongshu.
7. The Red Sea has long passed and the ship is sailing in the Indian Ocean, but the sun still sets late and gets up early, occupying most of the night. Night is like paper soaked in oil, becoming a translucent body; It is embraced by the sun and cannot be separated. Perhaps it was intoxicated by the sunshine, so the sunset glow of the night after faded camel red. When Hong Xiao was drunk, the sleeper in the cabin woke up in a greasy sweat, took a bath, rushed to the deck to blow the sea breeze, and another day began. This is the end of July, the hottest time of the year, and the third day of the China lunar calendar. It was hotter than usual in China. Afterwards, everyone said it was a sign of war, because it was the 26th year of People's Republic of China (PRC) (1937). —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
8. The great evil and cruelty in the world-there is no greater evil than cruelty-are mostly done by people with real moral ideals. People who have no morality commit crimes, and they know it is a crime; A truly moral person has done something that hurts others and thinks it is the price that morality should pay. God wants to punish mankind, sometimes for a famine, sometimes for a plague or a war, and sometimes for a moralist, with lofty ideals that ordinary people can't achieve, accompanied by self-confidence and incitement proportional to his ideals, and merged into unconscious pride. -Qian Zhongshu's Writing on the Edge of Life
9. Do the opposite. If you look at the world from another angle, you will get something different, and the world will be presented to you in another way. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
10, there is a kind of person who is swaggering. You flatter him, and he accepts it without shirking, as if you pay his debts, and he only hates you for not paying interest. Another kind of pretentious modesty is praised by others. He was ashamed, as if the boss had accepted a bribe, but the amount was too small, so he returned to the original wall and asked his subordinates to double it. No matter the creditor or the boss, they finally believe that there are still commendable good people in the world, at least themselves. Of course, there are bad people in modern times, but they are so bad that they have no spirit and personality, as quiet as an organism and as efficient as a machine. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
1 1, I don't like Chen San's original poem. Every poem must be read and understood before it can be circulated. Scattered original works, people who dare not ask questions after decades. Early work still has a sense of sadness, loneliness and anger, which inspires people, but it is also self-loathing. It is not difficult or impossible to retire when you are old. In order to disperse the original body, there is a shortcut, and so is the so-called avoidance of cooking and customs. It is said that the vegetation is not bright, the flowers are high and the willows are big; Birds don't say purple swallows and orioles, only crows and owls; It is said that beasts avoid tigers, leopards and bears, but it is hard to say about horses and cattle, so we have to consult the dog's ears. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
Marriage is like a golden birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so they stay with each other, and there is no bureau-Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged.
13. In the past, people were not allowed to receive education. The modern obscurantism policy only allows people to receive some kind of education. People who are illiterate are taken in by teachers, while those who are literate are taken in by printed materials, such as your newspaper propaganda materials and handouts for training cadres. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
14, so we have compensation for every defect, meanness is called saving, stupidity is called honesty, meanness is called flexibility, and lack of talent is called virtue. Therefore, there is no woman who feels unlovable, and there is no man who feels inferior to others. -Qian Zhongshu's Writing on the Edge of Life
15, there are no accidents in the world, just necessities of makeup and wearing masks. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
16, from now on, we will only die, and there will be no separation. -Qian Zhongshu
17. Miss you or miss you? We have to think of countless people, relatives, friends, enemies and irrelevant people we have met in one day. It is rare to really miss someone, miss him and hope to be close to him. Personnel are too busy to allow us to focus on one person without interruption. I'm afraid we miss our closest relatives all our lives, which adds up to less than a little. Besides, I just caught a glimpse and thought of him. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
18, there are many precocious women who have been pretending to be children; There are many girls who are just confused and stupid children without sex, let alone women. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
19, people who think they are clean always feel that others are dirty, even that they are dirty, and they feel better than clean people. They often stink of sweat and refuse to borrow other people's used toothbrushes and towels. ? In this way, we do not love cleanliness, but love ourselves. ? Lead an honest and clean life? That idiom contains profound psychological observation. To tell the truth, the difference between right and wrong, evil and righteousness in the world is sometimes just the difference between people and me, just like the filth of the body. Therefore, if you want to be a good person, you always say that everyone in the world is a bad person first; If you want to be a Taoist, you must first look straight at it and tell others how not to be a Taoist and not to be false. -Qian Zhongshu's Writing on the Edge of Life
20. This outdated opportunity inadvertently contains irony and sadness in life, which is deeper than all words and all smiles. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
2 1, a person who is not crazy at the age of 20 is worthless; It's no use being crazy at 30. -Qian Zhongshu
Strangely, people who take literature as their profession seem to be more illiterate. Many literary researchers have no ability to appreciate and distinguish the beauty and ugliness of poetry. However, as long as we enlarge our horizons, we will know that it is not worth seeing. Reading literary books without appreciating them is like watching the harem in the emperor's era. It happened that a eunuch hangs out with women every day. Although he has the opportunity, he is incompetent! No mistakes, no words. If there were no enemies, there would be no comedy of life. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
23. You don't have to choose any good songs to play the piano for cows. -Qian Zhongshu
24. Hung-chien said, You used to praise me for my kindness, but I just came here this time. Look at what he has done. It's not wonderful at all. ? Hsin-mei said, maybe I was young and inexperienced, and I couldn't see people clearly. However, I think Gao Songnian has always had a high status in recent years. A person with high status will become confused. ? In fact, a person's shortcomings are like a monkey's tail. When the monkey squatted on the ground, its tail was invisible until it climbed the tree, so the back was for the public to enjoy. However, this tail with red arms already exists, which is not a new sign of climbing. -Qian Zhongshu
25, scared! Suddenly one day I found myself in a daze, and I didn't know when to let her make a nest in our hearts. This is really an ambiguous and aggrieved relationship. Beauty is like the enemy's regular army. You know, stay alert. Even if you are defeated, you will have an explanation. Ordinary women are like Franco in this Spanish war? The fifth column? Being a spy has turned you upside down, and you are still dreaming. -Qian Zhongshu "People? Beast? Ghost
26. The rain is getting heavier and heavier, and water stains are flowing between the wires. The water vortex on the river is like acne and countless pockmarked seeds. As life keeps dying, the rain line becomes denser, and it seems that long hair grows on the smooth water. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
27. Color-blind people never learn to draw, but illiterate people sometimes talk about literature and are particularly keen on it. Then there is impressionist literary criticism, also called self-expression or creation. Of course, literary appreciation is inseparable from impression, but why impression is self-expression is beyond our understanding. According to common sense, impression can only be said to be the expression of the appreciated work, not the expression of the connoisseur's self, but the gift of the work, not the creation of the connoisseur. Impressionists talk about writing, which is really lively. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
28. Women are as smart as women and as light and lively as actions. Compared with this cleverness, learning is nothing more than depositing dross. Saying that a woman is talented is like praising a flower, saying that it is as heavy as cabbage and sweet potato on the balance. A really smart woman never tries to be a talented woman, she is just smart and lazy. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
29. You don't need to remember a good thing, it will leave a deep impression. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
30. If someone is lovelorn, they will immediately show their sadness like a beggar's rotten leg in a bloody public exhibition, which will make people feel pity, or things have changed, like a soldier's golden sore, which makes people dumbfounded. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
3 1, medicine needs people to live and save their bodies; Religion saves people's souls, and people are not afraid of death. So the patient was afraid of death and had to ask the doctor to take medicine; If the medicine doesn't work and you can't escape death, find a priest and the priest will die. Studying medicine and believing in religion means: if I can't teach the patient to live well, at least I can teach him to die well. He can't be wrong to invite me anyway. It's like a drugstore shopkeeper holding a coffin shop. It's so cheap! —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
32. Women are political animals by nature. Virtual reality, retreat for progress, these political skills, women are born with. ? Women don't have to study politics, but politicians nowadays must learn from women if they want to succeed. Dramas on the political stage are all cross-linked. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
33. For grapes that can't be picked, we will not only imagine that they are sour, but also imagine that they are exceptionally sweet. —Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
34. If the sound outside the window is too noisy, close the window and let the soul explore freely and meditate quietly. Sometimes, closing the window is also related to closing your eyes. You feel that the world outside the window, like you, can't give you any satisfaction. If you want to go back to your hometown, you must meet your lost relatives and friends. You want to sleep, close your eyes and look for it in your dreams, so you get up and close the window first. Because it's only spring, it's still cold, and the windows can't be closed at night. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
35. the western proverb says: A friend in need or in need is a true friend? , not superficial. When we are in urgent need, we need friends the least. A friend has money, and we need his money; Our friend has rice, but what we lack is his rice. ? That friend, who is always the most knowledgeable and interesting, has no intention to appreciate his humor, his hug and his charm when we are in a hurry. ? Try to see how many friendships there are in the world, because there are barriers to success; Similarly, if we look down on the most alienated people on weekdays, we will be more concerned than our friends on weekdays ―― Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life.
36. Actually, it's like a magician playing with a flying knife, but he won't let it go ―― Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged.
37. If you want the most promising thing to come true, you should despair of it first and prepare for unexpected surprises in the future. -Qian Zhongshu "People? Beast? Ghost
38. People inside want to go out and people outside want to go in. -Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged (Flash Point Love Network)
39. Most of the great evils and cruelty in the world-there is no greater evil than cruelty-are committed by people with real moral ideals. -Qian Zhongshu
40. We often compare flame to love, and this metaphor has unexpected relevance. Love is as greedy as fire, spreads like fire, and is as cruel as fire, destroying solid fertilizer and turning ashes into light and warmth. -Qian Zhongshu's Stone on the Edge of Life
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