As the saying goes: EQ is the foundation, IQ is the key, and anti-frustration ability is the guarantee. Therefore, the level of emotional intelligence can determine whether a child's other abilities, including IQ, can be fully exerted, thus determining how much achievement a child has made in his life. Therefore, if you are a smart parent, you should not only pay attention to your children's academic performance, but also pay attention to the cultivation of their emotional intelligence. What are the benefits of cultivating their emotional intelligence? How to cultivate children's emotional intelligence? Walk into the door of emotional intelligence with the child care assistant.
One of the benefits of EQ is to help children manage their emotions properly.
Cultivating children's emotional intelligence can make them more tolerant of setbacks and less likely to quarrel, fight or disturb the classroom order. It is better to express anger properly without resorting to fighting, and it is less likely to be suspended or dropped out of school, and less likely to show aggressive or self-destructive behavior.
The second benefit of EQ: it helps children to be self-motivated.
Cultivating children's EQ can make them have a positive impression on themselves, their school and their families, be better at relieving stress, be less lonely, feel inferior or anxious, be good at guiding emotions in the right direction, be more responsible, be more focused on their immediate work, and be more able to restrain impulses.
The third benefit of EQ is to let children know other people's emotions.
Cultivating children's emotional intelligence can make children look at problems from the perspective of others, put themselves in others' shoes and listen better.
The fourth benefit of EQ is to enable children to manage interpersonal relationships.
Cultivating children's emotional intelligence can enhance children's ability to analyze and understand interpersonal relationships, know how to solve and negotiate disputes, and know how to solve interpersonal conflicts. Communication is clearer, more skillful, more outgoing and more popular.
In the way of cultivating children's EQ, many parents also have some misunderstandings, such as: doting on children, arranging education, scolding children and so on. These are not conducive to the development of children's emotional intelligence, and are not conducive to the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence. Smart parents might as well try this.
1, show love to children
In a loving family, children's emotional intelligence will be high, which is well reflected in the family atmosphere of the little warm man. Therefore, in normal life, parents and children communicate more. In addition to language, you can also use eye contact and physical contact to express your love for your children.
2. Help children express their feelings
Emotional expression is an extremely important thing. When children's emotions are not vented, they will become very irritable and angry, so parents should help their children control their emotions and express their emotions in a reasonable way.
3. Establish children's self-confidence.
Most children with high emotional intelligence have strong self-confidence, so parents usually have to help their children build self-confidence.
There is no natural high emotional intelligence, and children with high emotional intelligence are all cultivated by their parents in the later period, so parents should also pay attention to the cultivation of their children's emotional intelligence when cultivating their children's IQ, so that their children will be better.