First, cultivate children's self-discipline quality. This quality, in my opinion, is the most far-reaching influence on children's growth among all qualities and abilities, especially self-discipline. Many adults have this problem. If the goals and plans are set for a period of time, they will gradually relax and give up for various reasons, and the final result is nothing. The fundamental reason lies in the lack of self-discipline awareness and ability. This gap leads to the development state, mental state and pattern vision of life.

Second, cultivate children's self-confidence and self-love. Many parents are used to treating their children's faults and temporary mistakes by beating and cursing and using cold language and violence during their children's growth. This way can easily hit children's self-confidence, and even lead to children gradually giving up on themselves, which is a consequence that every parent of us does not want to see.

Third, cultivate children's qualities of love, tolerance and gratitude. Love, tolerance and gratitude are the basis of all virtues, and they are also the basis for building trust and affection with relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and colleagues around us. Both mother and father should show such characteristics from themselves in their daily life and communication with their children. Educating children to be grateful for the upbringing of their parents, the education of teachers, the courtesy of pedestrians and vehicles, the help of friends, the care and care of relatives, the tolerance of unintentional mistakes of others, and the love of nature and life all require parents to calm down, slow down, experience the beauty of life and pass these positive energies on to their children. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, how to help children establish the necessary self-confidence and self-love consciousness is particularly important for parents. When children face setbacks and new things, how to encourage them to challenge, appease negative emotions and frustration, and how to help them correctly realize the importance, uniqueness and uniqueness of themselves and live a completely clean life are all very important.