1. Family is the first learning place for children's socialization: before the age of 3, the main places for people's socialization are family and nursery; 3 to 6 years old, the main destination of people is kindergarten; 7 years old to 15 years old, mainly in primary and junior high schools; 16 to 22 years old, the main place is high school to university and society, and then mainly society. Family is the initial socialization place of human beings and undertakes the mission of realizing normal socialization of human beings.
Many educators assert that a person's initial conditions will have a great influence on his life. Therefore, we should pay attention to the cultivation of children's social behavior in childhood, so that after they enter the society (kindergartens and schools), they can quickly adapt to various rules and codes of conduct of kindergartens or schools, and be accepted and recognized by their peers and teachers, thus establishing the self-confidence of "I am very popular" and laying a good foundation for future survival and development.
3. Family education is the foundation of children's future development: the small society of family is children's first school, because most people's personalities and habits are formed in the first few years of life. In the family classroom, we should not only impart knowledge to children, but also, as Mr. Chen Heqin, a famous children educator in China, said, "teach children to be human beings, cultivate their attitudes, develop their habits, discover their inner interests and train their basic skills in life." Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a people's educator, once said: "Before the age of 6, it is the most important period for personality cultivation.
The main contents of children's family education
1, Fertility: The goal of ability should generally include learning ability, independent ability (self-care, self-care, self-improvement and self-discipline) and communication ability. In the family, our parents and relatives should not spoil our children too much. Learn to let children take the initiative to take responsibility and deal with problems independently. This ability includes their own ability to make a living, and children should not be overly dependent on their families. Giving birth is not to make parents pay too much attention to their children's learning ability.
2. Moral education: Being a man is the foundation of being a man, and good quality is the foundation of being a man. Italian poet Dante said: "Morality can often fill the defects of wisdom; But wisdom can never fill the moral defects. "The goal of virtue should at least make children learn to be polite, have a strong sense of responsibility (including honesty) and love.