1, respect children's personality and dignity, let children think independently, choose freely, and treat children as equal members of the family. 2. Listen carefully to the children's opinions and try to be friends with them. Parents can't just make their own decisions and completely ignore their suggestions. 3. Try to understand the child, understand the child's heart and desire, respect the child's choice, and agree with the child's just request. When educating children, we should use practical and reasonable methods. Don't make comments and instructions on children's behavior easily, but try to guide children to think. 5. Being friends with children is not without principles. Love children. Free to develop children's hobbies, but not to let themselves go. 6. Communicate with children more and actively exchange ideas with children. The purpose of this is to close the spiritual distance between parents and children.