First of all, we should be calm, understand the reasons, try our best to understand the children's thoughts, convince them and establish a good relationship with them. There are six treasures:

1, needs-understand their needs, pay attention to their tone and attitude, respect children as much as possible, and maintain a harmonious atmosphere with each other. Colossians: Always speak kindly, as if it had been tempered with salt, and you will know how to answer everyone.

2, observation-carefully observe and pay attention to the child's working environment. Philippians: Every man should look after not only his own affairs, but also other people's affairs.

3, body language-use more body language when you are very excited, it is best not to teach children for the time being, so as not to solve problems rationally. Proverbs: it is inevitable to talk too much; No lips are wise.

4, oi-be patient, as firm and consistent as loving yourself. Colossians: Therefore, since you are God's chosen people, you should be compassionate, kind, modest, gentle and patient.

5. Support-don't criticize negatively. Don't always call your children "stupid" and "useless". Colossians: If a person has a grudge against another person, always tolerate and forgive each other; The Lord forgave you, and you have to forgive others.

6. Stereotype-Don't stereotype that parents should lead by example, match words with deeds, and don't set a bad example for their children. Colossians: Fathers, don't make your children angry, lest they lose heart.