As the saying goes, be a man first, educate people first, educate people first. No matter what you do, you should do what you want to do, otherwise you will accomplish nothing. Educate yourself first, then teach and educate people. If you can't educate yourself well, you are not qualified to teach others and have no ability to educate others.
As a man, there are three things:
1, kind, honest, can distinguish right from wrong. If these are basically not achieved, the rest is nonsense.
2, a person should have moral quality, a person's accomplishment is manifested in his personal quality, be kind to others, be polite to others, not attack others with bad words, and know how to take care of others. Such a person with a certain quality will certainly not lack friends.
3, to be tolerant, this is the most important thing, smile at others, learn to be tolerant of people and things, be generous, do things calmly, and don't care.
There are five points to cultivate yourself:
1, the first point must be filial piety. Filial piety is the first of all virtues. This is the most important thing in China culture since ancient times. If a person can't even take care of his closest family, he will still trust this person every day, and even the people who are most important to him are so bad, who will he be good to?
2. You must be self-motivated. As long as you are self-motivated, your career and love will be successful. You must have self-motivated ideas and motivation to attract more outstanding people to love you. If you are not motivated, you will lose everything. Daydreaming every day will only be like this for a lifetime.
3, it is not easy to work hard, no matter what industry you do. A hard-working person will never go hungry all his life. He is not afraid of anything because he has suffered a lot. Don't be lazy, fish for three days and dry the net for two days, so no matter how hard you work in the early stage, you will have nothing if you give up halfway.
4. You should have an optimistic attitude and a cheerful mood. Nothing you can do for an optimistic and cheerful person will knock him down. In this society, setbacks are endless. As long as you pass this hurdle, you can continue along this road no matter what you encounter.
5. Be a contented person. Some people go to the point of no return if they are not satisfied easily. Ambition is a good thing, but don't overdo it. You must learn to be satisfied.