The criterion for judging a good child should be not only good study, but also very important moral character, which requires the correct guidance of parents, not a word of "suppression". The old saying "at the beginning of life, human nature is good" constantly reminds us that in this respect, children's hearts are pure, and adults' words and deeds play a vital role in the formation of their conduct. We should pay great attention to our daily words and deeds and constantly learn and improve our personal cultivation. Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will directly affect children, from ignorance to adulthood. Similarly, parents should not only improve their wives' self-cultivation, but also reward and punish their children appropriately, educate their children scientifically and listen to their true voices. Parents should respect their children, communicate with them more, let them really understand their children, really help them, and guide them correctly. Educating children is not blindly imposing their own wishes, but starting from their own situation.