Skills of chatting with others. Nowadays, many people don't know how to chat with others. In fact, chatting is also skillful. Do you know the skills of chatting with others? I have arranged some related contents for you below. Let's have a look!

Chatting skills with people 1 1, and make an interactive opening statement.

After finding a good topic to chat with girls, the opening remarks must be skillful. Don't be descriptive or personal, so that the other party has no chance to contact. This is a very unsuccessful opening. It must be interactive, and let the other party participate as soon as possible.

2. Topics of interest

Girls may be interested in shopping, getting along with colleagues, movies, trivial things in life and so on. When chatting with girls, you can talk to her about some topics she is interested in according to their situation.

3. Understand girls' hobbies

As the saying goes, chatting with girls is the best skill, which is very good, so we must find ways to understand girls' hobbies, whether she likes sleeping late or gluttony, which is very helpful for future communication and getting along.

4. Use sentences carefully

Reduce words without nutrition: for example, "Are you there?" "Is anyone there?" "I'm so bored" and so on, especially the sentence "Are you there?" makes people speechless. I just want to reply that you are still alive and thoughtful. Seeing "I'm so bored", I just want to answer "fuck me"! So don't use these words, especially in the opening remarks.

5, will adjust the atmosphere

Two people can talk about life and ideals together, but if you two can't communicate spiritually, it will not be easy to talk about this topic for a long time. Therefore, it is easier to promote the relationship between men and women by adjusting the atmosphere with some humor.

Tips for chatting with people 2 1. What can keyword chat do?

Whether in social occasions or in love, when you can skillfully use keywords to chat, it can help you improve the quality of your chat and effectively grasp each other's topics.

There are two ways to chat with keywords here: one is shallow and the other is deep!

Shallow keywords can establish basic dialogue connection, while deep keywords can establish inner emotional connection. In this article, I will focus on how to operate shallow dialogue connection.

Shallow chat connection is very suitable for chatting with others. You can use this shallow keyword skill if you can't get through chatting with others. The shallow keyword chat method only maintains simple and normal dialogue and communication, and may be inadvertently used in the chat process.

2. What is the keyword chat method?

As the name implies, it is to maintain and continue the chat topic by grasping the key words in the topic.

Therefore, when chatting with the other party, we can keep a normal conversation by grasping a key word in the other party's discourse and telling our own experiences, opinions, feelings or stories related to others according to this key word.

Now learn to use it, there is no pressure, let's see how to operate it!

3, keywords to continue the common skills of chat topics

Lazy chat method: repeat keywords at the end of the sentence (difficulty: ★)

In chat, extracting the keywords at the end of the other person's conversation and repeating them with interesting voices can guide the other person to continue talking and avoid embarrassing chat and dialogue termination, which is very embarrassing.

Chestnuts:

(1) A: "I found a strange thing here yesterday?"

B: "Things?"

A: "Yes, at that time ..."

(2) Answer: "I have a friend who was cheated the day before yesterday."

B: "cheated?"

A: "Yes, because he believed the winning message sent by cheating paper."

B: "What news?"

A: "The content of the message is ..."

This way is not so much necessary for lazy people as a skill that can be used by white people who can't chat, because we learn to chat not to be lazy, but to be able to socialize without pressure.

Core keyword continuation (difficulty: ★)

Grasping any key "keyword" in a sentence to continue the topic is one of the simplest and most basic chat skills.

For example:

The other party said, "I was scolded by my supervisor today and I was in a bad mood."

There are three key words in this sentence: supervisor, scolded and in a bad mood, which can extend the topic from this direction;

Example of topic continuation:

"What's your usual relationship with the supervisor?" (Keywords: supervisor)

"Yes, I feel that being scolded in the company will make me feel uncomfortable all day." (Keywords: being scolded)

"I know, I always want to eat when I am in a bad mood. Will you do the same? " (Keywords: mood)

In addition, you can also grasp an interesting core keyword in the other party's discourse for deep misinterpretation, and create a slightly humorous chat atmosphere.

For example:

W: I'm just saying. ...

Man: So you are a casual person, hahaha. (Keywords: whatever)

When chatting with each other, you can find keywords that are "meaningful" or "interesting" for you to extend and expand, so that you can effectively grasp the key points of each sentence.

When I was chasing girls, I was also very ignorant. I fell in love with a girl and chatted with her every day. Even if I don't like staying up late, I will buy her anything she wants. I spent almost 5000 yuan on clothes and bags, but all I got was her words: "That's very kind of you. Let's be friends."

One of her suitors went on a date with her, then went to eat a meal that didn't exceed 100 yuan, and took her down. I almost collapsed and gave up the hope of chasing girls. Later, I saw "Wang Laohu" on the Internet. As my analysis said, "Chasing girls is not by kneeling, but by attracting and letting girls take the initiative."

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Keywords+related experiences, thoughts, feelings, etc. (difficulty: ★★★★)

Simply put, catching a keyword in the other person's words and then sharing your own or others' experiences, stories and ideas around this keyword will resonate with you.

A: This Tiramisu is a little different from the last one. (Keywords: Tiramisu, Taste)

B: White wine was added to Tiramisu this time ... (Tiramisu+my own opinion)

When you grasp the key word Tiramisu and finish this sentence, you can leave more room for the other party to ask questions. Do you know how to make tiramisu? How do you taste it with white wine? Wait a minute. For any question, after you answer it, you will lead to more new questions, and then find a bigger resonance point.

4. Commonly used keywords to enhance their emotional connection (difficulty: ★★★)

Grasp the keywords with the same topic to extend and expand the topic, thus deepening the sense of connection between you!

Everyone likes to talk about what they are interested in and good at, so as to share their knowledge, experience, views and opinions.

Therefore, mastering this keyword skill can quickly narrow the psychological distance between you and the other person, not only enhance the sense of connection between them, but also make them familiar with each other faster!

For example:

I played football with my friends this afternoon. What a refreshing feeling!

Oh, you like football too! I play forward. What position do you play? (Keywords: football, common topic)

A: Me. ...

B: You should like C Ronaldo, right? What I like is that ...

However, common interests cannot be learned in a day or two. You need to dabble in more knowledge and gradually build a personal knowledge reserve.

4. Preliminary practice and mastery of keyword chat.

There are not many shallow keyword chat methods, so do it after reading it, but after some practice, the effect can be immediate, especially for Xiaobai who can't chat.

At the beginning of practice, you can practice by chatting online instead of talking face to face, because you can have more time to think about what you need to answer:

Summary:

(1) In the process of chatting, select keywords from each other's words.

(2) Put this keyword in your answer and add some of your own thoughts, opinions, feelings or other relevant information.

(3) Then grab new keywords from each other's responses, and so on! Practice more and you will become better.

In addition, this method is a panacea for steel straight men! ! You will never be at a loss when dealing with girls, but this is just a skill that has been summed up. Real chat growth needs to be based on the use of these skills, and finally you can speak freely without relevant skills!