Space: Let children become themselves.
The first step of family education is to give children enough room to grow up and help Ta become herself. Schools and families should be places to help children find themselves and achieve themselves, and they should be the stage for Ta to shine. Don't impose our wishes on children, so the children they cultivate will never meet our wishes and lose the initial intention of education. Help children build self-confidence, give Ta enough room to grow, and let Ta become the best self.
Moral character: the foundation of the world
In recent years, an endless stream of family education accidents have sounded the alarm for everyone-the education method that only pays attention to grades and ignores morality is all wet, poor academic performance can always find a suitable development path, and moral problems are hard to find a place to go. Since childhood, we have attached importance to the education of children's morality. Honesty, tolerance and enthusiasm will never be out of date. Don't think that children neglected Ta's moral education when they were young. Ta may not understand it yet, but when they grow up, they will know the importance of morality and benefit from it.
Companionship: Don't miss your child's childhood.
No matter how busy we are, we should accompany our children, not only because we are their parents, but also because we were the best teachers when they were children. We can always catch up with the study of knowledge in a few years, but the sooner we cultivate habits and outlook on life, the better. We should give full play to our role model, teach children the right truth by example and help them establish a correct outlook on life. What's more, children's childhood is only less than a year, and once they miss it, they will regret it for life.
Reading: a lifelong habit
Reading is an important source of children's rich spiritual life, and the cultivation of reading ability, reading interest and reading habits begins at home. The knowledge gained by reading is a lifetime wealth, which will always exist in our brains and will continue to increase in value. Educating children through reading is more effective than oral education and can cultivate good parent-child relationship. In addition to knowledge reserve and value edification, reading has a healing function for children, and children will grow up carefree and freely in that small world.
Habit: fuel for growth
"Mr. Ye Shengtao, an educational educator, once said: It is to cultivate habits. To some extent, the key to measure the success of education lies in whether good habits are cultivated. Good habits are "giving people fish", which is the most fundamental way to teach children and the fuel to ensure their healthy growth. The power of habit is enormous. The time we can spend with our children is actually limited, but the good habits cultivated from childhood will accompany our children for life.
Respect: Children are independent individuals.
Don't just treat children as "accessories" of our children, they are also independent individuals. Children's self-esteem is the shell, and our disrespect will break this shell layer by layer. How does a fragile heart face the external storm? Only by remembering the three noes-not always comparing children with other children, not criticizing children in public, not punishing children violently, respecting children's present life, respecting their privacy and self-space, can children love us more and respect us more.
Believe: the driving force for progress
How powerful is faith? You will never find the exact answer, but our trust in children will make them go further.
I believe that children can do it. If Ta is given timely encouragement and praise, children will have the motivation to work hard. If you don't believe in your child's ability, the child will feel hard and have no sense of accomplishment. Don't choose to trust children because you see hope in them. If you choose to trust your children, Ta will bring you hope.