Family education plays a very important role in children's growth, but there are also some unreasonable phenomena and problems. Here are some possible irrationalities.

First of all, parents excessively interfere with their children's growth and development. Some parents pay too much attention to their children's achievements and performance during their growth, and interfere too much with their children's study and life. This kind of behavior can easily lead to children's stress and anxiety, and affect their self-confidence and independence.

Secondly, parents rely too much on the reward and punishment system. Some parents rely too much on the reward and punishment system to restrain their children's behavior and study, which will easily lead to children's fear and pressure and affect their mental health and autonomy.

Thirdly, parents lack communication and communication. Some parents lack communication and communication with their children, and they don't understand and pay enough attention to their children's life and growth. This kind of behavior can easily lead to children's loneliness and helplessness, and affect children's emotional development and social skills.

Finally, parents demand too much or unreasonable from their children. Some parents' demands on their children are too high or unreasonable, which can easily lead to children's frustration and disappointment, and affect their self-esteem and self-confidence. At the same time, this kind of behavior can easily lead to children's rebellious psychology and bad behavior.

In a word, there are unreasonable phenomena and problems in family education, which need parents to take seriously and improve. Parents should respect their children's personality and needs, establish good communication and exchanges with their children, pay due attention to their study and life, and give them appropriate support and help. In family education, we should pay attention to balance and moderation, so that children can grow up happily in a warm family atmosphere.