How do we conduct sex education? "Sex" is not as unteachable as we thought. It can be seen everywhere in our lives, so we can educate everywhere. Psychologists believe that children's understanding of sex has gone through the stage of understanding and confirming gender. Kohlberg summarized the process of children's understanding of gender into three stages: the first stage, basic gender identity, children aged 2-3 can correctly point out their own gender; In the second stage, gender stability, children aged 3-5 gradually realize that a person's gender will not change with age; In the third stage, the firmness of gender, children aged 5-7 realize that the change of a person's appearance or activities has nothing to do with gender, that is, they begin to understand the essential difference between gender. Therefore, at every stage, we should guide children how to do it, instead of avoiding or avoiding such problems.
1, family sex education
Treat children's questions correctly, and don't avoid or even cheat. We should answer children's questions scientifically and don't keep any mystery. Children will ask such questions out of curiosity or carelessness, so teach them how to protect themselves. Many children will be interested in their genitals, and some children will play with their genitals. At this time, our parents should not be nervous, don't think their children are precocious, and the children are just curious. We should tell children that genitals are a part of the body, and they are also an organ of the body like our eyes. We should take care of them. If we don't take care of them, we will get hurt or even get sick.
2. How to conduct sex education in kindergartens?
Teachers can carry out corresponding activities according to different ages. For example, in small classes, children can know their gender and distinguish between boys and girls. Boys have to go to boys' toilets and girls have to go to girls' toilets. Children in the middle class are more gender-conscious than children in the small class, which can let them know how babies are born, how they grow into adults and how they come out of their mothers' stomachs. You can learn more about "fertilized eggs", "fetus and spawning" and so on in the big class. In normal times, we can tell our children what girls should do and what boys should do. Girls should be like mothers, boys should be like fathers, and so on.