First, cultivate girls' temperament
As the saying goes, "the poor raise their children and the rich raise their daughters", and there is some truth in this old saying. It has always been rich and powerful, and there are many ladies. We should take more girls to various occasions since childhood to broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge. In this way, girls will not be tempted by others when they grow up.
Second, cultivate girls' mentality.
In the education and training of girls, the most important thing is to make them have a healthy mentality. Spoiling a daughter is not doting, but making her independent, independent and clear about her pursuit.
Third, give girls proper help.
Some parents think that letting girls make their own choices is a good opportunity to teach their children how to make decisions. However, if we give girls too wide a range of choices, they will be confused by these choices because they can't think rationally.
Therefore, before a girl is seven years old, many things have to be decided by adults, giving them some guidance and help.
If parents are kind and firm when making decisions, it is easy to win their daughter's cooperation, which will make her feel safe because she knows that her parents will be responsible for her again. Of course, after the age of 7, when a girl has the ability to think rationally, she no longer needs her parents to make decisions for her.
Fourth, don't give girls too much trouble.
Girls are like delicate flowers, which need careful care. As parents, we should understand the psychological needs of little girls, create a gentle and good environment for their growth, and don't let them enter the adult world too early, otherwise it will only cause them trouble and pressure, which is very unfavorable for their growth.
In order to avoid these situations, first of all, we can't make fun of the little girl like adults, or call her a little lady, hoping that she will behave like an adult, which usually makes girls of this age feel confused or at a loss.
Secondly, when a girl does something suitable for her age, her parents should praise her in time, so that she will not be interested in and attracted to the adult world.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) respects girls' feelings.
When children are young, they always cry to express their emotions. When they can talk, if they cry again, there are other reasons. For example, sometimes they want their parents' attention, so parents should learn to trust girls, understand their feelings and accept their emotions. If girls' feelings and emotions are ignored or denied by their parents, they will be unhappy and will not cooperate with their parents. Therefore, if we want our girls to be "good girls" all the time, parents should learn to respect their self-awareness and their emotions.
Compared with boys, girls are much more sensitive. When her feelings and emotions are denied by her parents, her reaction is much stronger than that of boys. Therefore, parents' disagreement with girls' feelings and emotions is often the main factor that makes girls more willing to cooperate with their parents.
For girls, parents' efforts are to be their protectors and intimate friends, not leaders, so parents should avoid these mistakes in education and give them a warm and harmonious growth environment.