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Children don't study well, is it useful for parents to beat and scold? Why?
Children don't study well, so beating and cursing at home is definitely not acceptable. Parents should first stop analyzing the reasons for their children's poor academic performance, and then be targeted. Since children have knowledge and independent thoughts, self-esteem is formed. Although the child is still young, everyone will like to be praised rather than criticized. Some parents think that beating and scolding their children is because they made mistakes and didn't study hard, so they should forget for a long time. However, have parents ever thought that it is useful to educate modern children by beating and cursing?

First, if you are absent-minded in class because you don't study hard, and like to make small moves in class, then you should be careful not to let your children bring some small toys to school or buy some colorful stationery for them. The role of stationery is to assist learning, but colorful will affect learning, such as pencil case, which is simple and applicable.

Second, if you like playing computer and watching TV, you should control your time. You can only read the rules for a few minutes every day, and complete your homework tasks within the specified time to form rules.

Third, you can buy some extra-curricular books for your children, or often take your children to the bookstore to read books and accumulate knowledge.

The abuse and scolding of parents will make children afraid of their parents, escape from their parents, weaken family ties and form psychological shadows. The psychological influence of parents will make them lose their personality, ideas, courage and self-confidence. Some children will also show rebellious psychology. There is a gap between children and parents, and there is no communication if there is a problem. Is this really good for children's growth and future? In fact, educating children, beating and cursing can't deal with basic problems. The stick method only applies to the older generation in the past. Modern children, due to the influence of family environment, lack of exercise, poor pressure resistance, immature psychological development, can not bear twists and turns and failure. Parents need to find appropriate methods and conduct rational education according to their children's personality. Parents can use the method of "love, communication, understanding and accommodation" to enter their children's inner world and find out the real reason why children don't like learning.