The importance of family education first: the family environment affects the growth of children.
Because environmental factors are universal, regular, natural and accidental, children will be affected by various factors. Spontaneity, in particular, has both parallel and contradictory effects on education. At this time, the child's physical and mental development may sometimes be beneficial and positive, and sometimes it may be bad and negative. Therefore, the role of environmental factors should not be underestimated. Under the influence of family, some children can show their special talents in some aspects earlier. As the saying goes? If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. ? In a sense, it explains the role of environment on people. In ancient times? Meng Mu moved three times? From where? Its house is near the grave? Arrive? Move to the city? , finally moved? Next to the scholar Finally, under the influence of scholars, Monk became a scholar. This shows that people have long attached importance to the influence of the environment on people.
Second: Parents set an example for their children's growth.
Family is the cell of society and the first environment for children to live. What is the truth of children? The first teacher? It's your parents Teaching children to be human is the first condition for their growth. When children look at the world with inquiring eyes, when they know the world, their parents are the most common ones in their eyes, and their words and deeds are expressing their attitude towards life. Parents are always unconditionally recognized by their children at the beginning, so they are not conscious, but the imitation objects are determined. Therefore, parents must set an example in everything, set a good example for their children, and stay in their hearts as decent people.
Third, parents' emphasis on education affects their children's growth.
Nowadays, most parents are busy making money, providing a good living and learning environment for their children, and will ignore the importance of their children's education. Some parents may simply think that letting their children go to the best schools and have the most advanced learning tools is an investment in education. In fact, parents' attention to education is not only a simple material investment, but also a psychological concern and care for children. First of all, we should understand children's psychology and follow the law of children's psychological development. Secondly, in life, children should be taught to know themselves correctly, neither belittling themselves nor belittling themselves, so as to treat people correctly. Otherwise, children will know others unilaterally and overestimate themselves, and they will always be unhappy when they encounter things, either because they are jealous of others, or because they are worried and resentful, and they will lose happiness because of some unhealthy emotions. It is a positive psychological state to cultivate children's self-confidence. The basic point of self-confidence is to believe that you have the strength to complete a task, even if the task is challenging. Self-confidence comes from successful experience and the correct way of parents. Appreciating children is the basic attitude that every parent should have towards their children. Finally, children should be educated to face failures and setbacks correctly. In the world, there is no road paved with flowers in front of children, only waiting for them to harvest one fruit after another and experience the joy of success. No one can avoid the inevitable failures and setbacks in life.
The significance of family education Family education is one of the components of big education and the foundation of school education and social education. Family education is lifelong education, starting from the day the child is born (even dating back to the fetal period). What is the family education in infancy? The beginning of life? Education plays an important role in one's life. After children go to primary school and middle school, family education is not only the foundation of school education, but also the supplement and extension of school education.
Throughout the history of human civilization, what has never changed is that parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Family is a person's first class and a lifelong school. The national education platform is supported by three pillars: family education, school education and social education. Modern school education and social education are supported by legal norms, scientific guidance and modern technology, while family education is almost in a natural and primitive state, lacking scientific guidance, ignoring or even contradicting the role of modern technology. If the pillar of family education continues to be weak, which is very different from the other two pillars, then the platform of national education will be tilted, and it is even more impossible to develop in a stable, harmonious and healthy way. So the state must legislate for family education.
Scientific and technological innovation is the core competitiveness of a country, education is the future of mankind, and family education is the guarantee for the realization of future goals. Today, without a good family education, the experience of yesterday will become painful and the vision of tomorrow will become dim. If the Dapeng of education is to take off, the trunk of basic education must be strong, the wings of vocational education and higher education must be strong, and the brain of family education must be sound. Family is the cell of society. Only when every cell is healthy can the whole society be healthy. Only on the basis of family harmony can there be harmony in the whole society. Family education? Make a living for the nation and create peace for the world. ? It is the responsibility of the state to legislate for family education, and it is the mission of every citizen to train children and grandchildren.
Family education is very important for a person's life. Children with positive parents are easy to do good, while children with evil parents are easy to do evil. Parents' equality with children and girls is democratic, arbitrary, kind and cruel to children. Meng Mu moved three times and her mother-in-law got a tattoo. The one near the ink is black, and the one near Zhu Zhechi is black. ? And so on, all show that parents' literacy and family environment are closely related to people's lifelong education. Three basic contents of human education: health, emotion and knowledge. Corresponding three habits: neatness, smiling and reading. Without family education, it is almost impossible to ensure that these three contents fall into the cultivation of three habits in real life. However, the current problems in family education have affected or even seriously distorted the healthy growth of infants and adolescents. Therefore, it is necessary to legislate for family education so that every parent and child's guardian can practice it for educating their children and grandchildren.
At present, family education lacks scientific educational guidance, adheres to old, backward and wrong educational concepts, adopts primitive and natural educational methods, attaches importance to intellectual education over moral education, attaches importance to physiology over psychology, attaches importance to foreign teachers over introspection, and attaches importance to teaching without teaching. This phenomenon is quite common. It is urgent to solve the problems and contradictions in family education practice. To improve the quality of family education and the quality of guardians themselves, we must change the primitive and natural way, and, like other social occupations, we must undergo necessary training? On duty? . Get married when you are physically mature, get married when you are psychologically mature, and educate your children with good literacy. Family education is guided by renewing ideas, regulated by law, guided by science and supported by advanced technology. The state must legislate for family education so that every parent can practice for the upbringing of their children.
To sum up, no matter from the history of human development, the significance and purpose of education, the perfection of legal system, and the present situation and future demand of family education, the state must legislate for family education, which is the unshirkable responsibility of the state. It is the mission that every citizen must undertake to let every parent practice for the education of their children and grandchildren.
Ten ways to educate children at home 1. Lead by example: example is an important way to influence and educate children with other people's good thoughts and behaviors. For example, classmates, neighbors, teachers, heroes and model figures, positive figures in literary and artistic works, and excellent qualities of revolutionary leaders are all objects for children to learn and imitate. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a far-reaching impact on children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.
Second, environmental edification: parents should consciously create a good living environment so that their children can be infected and edified. Family is the main place where children live. Parents should organize their own lives, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish an orderly life order, and cultivate children's beautiful sentiments.
Third, criticism and punishment: both criticism and punishment are negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we should first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive. Punishment is mainly deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.
Fourth, guide the arrangement of life order: a good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.
5. Persuasion education: the specific methods of persuasion education: First, talk, parents put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, so that children can understand a certain truth. Speak with pertinence and flexibility, and have an amiable attitude. Don't be condescending and cynical. The second is discussion, where parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should have the courage to admit that their views are incorrect.
Practical exercise: The content of practical exercise is quite extensive, such as adapting to the surrounding environment, exercising, self-care, housework, working independently, being polite, socializing and so on. To carry out actual exercise, we should first let the children know the purpose (why), put forward specific requirements (how to do it), and encourage them to overcome difficulties and stick to it. The content of exercises should be suitable for children's age characteristics and personality characteristics, and the tasks and requirements given should be based on children's actual ability and appropriate. Children should be allowed to make mistakes in practice and not be too demanding. Parents can't stop exercising because they are afraid of their children suffering.
Seven, praise and reward: praise and reward is to give affirmation and praise to children's thoughts and behaviors. Through affirmation and praise, strengthen children's enterprising spirit and sense of honor, and strive for greater progress. Praise and reward should be realistic, timely and explain the reasons, and should be based on spiritual rewards, supplemented by material rewards.
Eight, guide extracurricular reading: guide children to read books, newspapers and magazines, and learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of children's reading, discuss with children, and guide children to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and get spiritual cultivation through reading.
Nine, the use of home TV: TV into the family, children can get a lot of knowledge from watching TV, increase their knowledge, and make full use of it. But be careful: you can't have no choice and don't spend too long. After watching TV, you'd better talk to your children and discuss the TV content.