1, principle of equality. Psychological research has proved that the equal debate between children and parents is not only a manifestation of mutual love, but also helps children build confidence, distinguish right from wrong, and enrich their imagination and creativity. Many parents feel that children should listen to themselves and obey their own when raising their children hard. This concept should be changed, and children should be treated as equals.

2. Respect the principle. Parents respect their children, and children can respect their parents. Some parents just want their children to do what they say. If their children have their own opinions or defend themselves, they will reprimand them loudly. This kind of child is likely to parrot when he grows up and has no opinion.

3. The principle of emotional communication. Many parents mistakenly think, "You have books to read, food to eat and clothes to wear. What else do you want? " But human growth needs not only material things, but also spiritual and emotional needs. Parents ignore children's spiritual and emotional needs, and children and parents have nothing to say. In the long run, it will become more and more embarrassing for children to get along with their parents.

4. The principle of freedom. Many parents are very strict in the management of their children, but they are often thankless and even lead to tragedy. We should believe in children's ability and give them a space for free development.

5. The principle of unification. Family education should be unified with the school, otherwise the children are at a loss. In addition, the educational concepts among family members should be consistent, otherwise the children will not know who to listen to and will not listen to anyone as a result.

6. The principle of example. Parents are the first objects for children to imitate, so we must set an example and don't plant bad seeds in children's young minds.

7. Trust principle. Lies come from distrust. If you trust your child from an early age, he doesn't have to lie.

8. The principle of tolerance. To err is human. Children will naturally make mistakes when they grow up. Parents should be tolerant, and don't have to "swear at small mistakes and serve at big mistakes."

9. The principle of encouragement. Children should be encouraged more in family life. Many parents have a bad habit. When their children get good grades, they will say, "Did they peek?" When the child's grades are poor, he said, "You have been so poor." Although it was a casual sentence, it greatly hurt the child's heart.

10, principle of method change. With the growth of children's age, educational methods should be constantly changed.