What impressed me most was Isabella Chow's speech: "China's parents love their children too much, but the key is."
Is to love; Our parents teach their children that only love is not enough, and only by knowing children can they have a bright future. "I am very much in favor of Isabella Chow's appreciation education law,
Mr Isabella Chow started by tutoring his daughter Zhou Tingting.
The truth of educating children consciously experienced, understood and summarized in school and social education practice is ordinary and important, just like sunshine and air, which are indispensable to everyone every day, but intangible.
I couldn't touch it, so I ignored it. Mr. Isabella Chow not only saw it, touched it and paid attention to it, but also extracted it with appreciation education, summarized it and showed it with convincing examples, which was very shocking.
Expressed in the language of force, it is easy for people to understand, convince and accept.
I feel pure fatherly love from the story of Professor Isabella Chow. It is because of this love that he has achieved the successful cultivation of his daughter and the happiness and appreciation education of his children throughout his life.
A career. All parents and teachers in the world have love, but the light and thick love has different feedback effects. Some love moistens the "bud" with warmth, making it bloom with beauty, big or small.
Or gorgeous or elegant flowers, and some love suppresses the "bud" of excessive anxiety, making it sluggish and lifeless.
As a teacher, I deeply feel the same way and cost of love in Teacher Zhou's theory. As teacher Zhou said, "love needs to be learned, and love without wisdom is the greatest harm to children." at present
As parents and teachers, we place too high expectations on our children and students. Behind the overload of "love" given to children, there are naturally complaints and losses that cannot meet expectations.
Hope, even some examples have reached the position of resentment. While denouncing children for failing to achieve their goals and achieve success, we are killing their self-confidence and fighting spirit bit by bit. In the course of their struggle,
Their mentality began to become dark and panic, so how can success favor them? Whenever people are struggling to find an answer, why do children and students fail to live up to expectations and rarely think calmly about their actions and hearts?
In terms of motivation, Isabella Chow's wise words "thumbs up" and "say you can do it, you can do it" come to mind.
Teacher Isabella Chow told us many vivid examples, which made us realize some practical educational methods: dialectically look at the pros and cons (lovely shortcomings)-"Life is like water, which one?"
Isn't the paragraph nice? "; Always support and encourage (embrace failure)-"You can do it! " ; Clearly express appreciation attitude (master state)-"You are my pride". Of course, the educational method can't pass.
Experts' mouths come out one after another, and more good prescriptions need to be tried in practice, especially according to the actual characteristics of each child and student, as long as we adhere to the belief of "appreciation" and invest our love.
If you appreciate reason and wisdom with your heart, you will certainly find many effective and good methods!