Looking back now, my favorite thing when I was a child was reading in my mother's arms. At that time, if someone asked me who I was most afraid of, I would immediately answer "most afraid of my mother." But if someone asks me who I love most, I will not hesitate to answer "love my mother". It is such a strict and loving mother who taught me what is rigorous and pragmatic, what is conduct and etiquette, what is happiness and warmth, and what is loyalty and honesty.
Innocent mother
I have been a particularly naughty child since I was a child. However, contrary to the strict discipline of many mothers, my mother not only tolerates my naughty behavior, but also loves me very much.
For example, since I was a child, I especially like to imitate others, my father's Sichuan dialect, his pace and the tone of the characters on TV. Every day when my second sister comes home, I always pester her to play the game of soldier robber with me. Besides, I will always be an officer, and she will always be a robber who was killed by me.
At school, I always walk around and talk a lot. Once, I was taped to my mouth by an unbearable teacher, and my mother just came to pick me up. Awkward! Another time, in order to stay up for an hour, I secretly set the clock at home back by an hour. My mother got up late the next day. But when she found out that this was my prank, she not only didn't punish me, but also found it very interesting.
Appreciate naughty children.
One summer vacation, I wrote a martial arts novel in which all the characters were my family. I also recorded the novel as a "radio drama" and dubbed it with a knife and fork. In addition, I also brought an album with me and my nephew dressed as my mother's least favorite actors, players, advertising roles and so on. But this album is missing a cover. Since they are all things that my mother doesn't like, I want to take a picture of my mother's anger. To this end, one day I held down the elevator and kept my mother waiting for ten minutes. Then I was at the other end of the elevator, ready to capture her "angry moment" with my camera. My martial arts novels and photo albums are still at my mother's bedside. I think only having a heart as young as my mother can tolerate and even appreciate children's mischief.
I think so. My naughty should be inherited from my mother. Father never laughs, but mother often "stirs up" with us. Once, my brother and mother had a water fight, and the whole family was flooded with water. Finally, my mother hid upstairs and saw my brother passing downstairs, so she threw a basin of water on his head.
When I was a child, my neighbor boasted that there were 100 fish in his pond, but our whole family didn't believe it. Later, when the neighbor was not at home, several children decided to drain the neighbor's pool and count how many fish there were. As we have confirmed, there are actually only more than fifty fish in the pond. But after this ordeal, many fish nearby died. Angry neighbors came to our house to protest, but my mother snickered while apologizing, because the "fish counting project" was planned by her own hands and made by her and her children.
With such a mother, each of our children has no sense of distance. Over the years, my mother has been "getting along" with us, and we have deep feelings for her.
Make good use of "opportunity education"
China people always regard "obedience" as a child's advantage. But my mother not only wants me to obey, but also wants me to be reasonable. So my mother has been using "opportunity education" to let me know how to be a man.
When I entered primary school, I couldn't help feeling very proud. Every time my parents have friends over, I secretly tell them how smart and powerful I am.
"Aunt, I'm already in primary school!"
"Really, aren't you only five years old?"
"Yes, I passed the advanced placement exam, and I was the first!"
"What happened after going in?"
"I haven't even seen 99 points except 100!"
I didn't expect me to praise it so much. I got 90 points in the exam the next week and fell out of the top five. Seeing my report card, my mother took out a bamboo board and beat me without saying anything.
I cried and said, "My grades are not bad. Why did you hit me? "
"Hit you because you are proud. You say,' I haven't even seen 99 points', then you give me 100 points every time! "
"I know I was wrong. I will study hard in the future. "
"Not only should we study hard, but we should also get rid of our pride. Only when others sincerely praise you can you be happy. It's no use boasting. Modesty is the virtue of China people. Do you understand? "
"I see. Is mom still angry? "
"I'm not angry. Do you want to lie in my arms and read? "
Mom's anger always comes and goes quickly. I don't think she will be angry with her children for long because she loves them too much. Of course, this punishment also reminds me that "modesty is the virtue of China people". Similarly, my mother can always seize every opportunity of "opportunity education" and try to let me know the truth of being a man with positive examples.
Expect the highest and teach the deepest.
My mother firmly believes that I am the smartest child, so she has the highest expectations and the strictest discipline. My mother always has my son in her sight. She uses a very standard Chinese education on me-asking her son to do everything to the best of his ability.
In terms of homework, my mother asks me about my situation every day and teaches me personally. My mother will wake me up at five o'clock in the morning, take me to school, and pick me up in person after school in the afternoon. When she doesn't study hard, her mother will angrily throw her textbook outside the door; When I go backwards, my mother may beat me up; My mother will reward me when I make progress. I know that my mother has made a lot of efforts for me, and I will study hard and get high marks. Every time I publish my results, it is my proudest moment. I will run home with the test paper and be the first to tell my mother my good grades.
I remember when I was a child, I won the first prize in an exam, and my mother took me out to buy me a present. I took a fancy to a complete set of Sherlock Holmes, and my mother said, "Books are not gifts. You can buy as many books as you want, as long as they are Chinese and foreign masterpieces. " As a result, she not only bought a book, but also bought a watch as a gift for me. Since then, I have been reading all day, and I have to read at least two or three hundred books a year. At that time, I read western literature such as A Tale of Two Cities, A Record of Monte Cristo, and China classical literature such as The Romance of the Three Kingdoms and The Water Margin, but it was the biographies of celebrities that had the greatest influence on me. I remember Helen best. Keller and Edison. Helen? Keller's experience of entering a first-class university despite his blindness and deafness has a great influence on the formation of my tenacity and courage in the future. Edison's invention changed human life, which made me determined to be a scientist. Thanks to my mother's support, I can read so many books at an early age and form the habit of reading for life.
Although I did well in school, I didn't always get high marks. Once I didn't do well in the exam, and I was afraid of holding the paper. I can even imagine my mother hitting me with a bamboo board. Suddenly an idea came to me: why not change the soundtrack? I took out my red pen and drew it carefully. "78" has become "98", and I don't see any flaws. I was happy, but I was still uneasy on the way home. When I got to the door, I took out my paper and looked at it to make sure it was safe. Then I walked in softly.
My mother noticed that I was back and stopped me: "Have the test papers been handed out? How many points? "
"98。" I took out my test paper.
My mother took the paper, and my heart jumped for fear that my mother would see the traces of revision. But she just touched my head and said, "Go do your homework."
There is a first time for this kind of thing, and there will be a second time. When I picked up the pen again to trace the failed test paper, my hands trembled and my score was dragged by a long tail. This is terrible. On the way home, the more I think about it, the more scared I am. I lied to my mother, which is absolutely intolerable to her. I can't wait to apologize to my mother at once. On the way to school, I lost my mind and threw the test paper into the ditch.
But when I got home, my mother was not in a hurry to ask for the score. After a few days of fear, I finally ran to my mother and admitted my mistake to her. I thought my mother would give me a good beating, but all she said was, "I wish I knew my mistake." I hope you will be an honest child in the future. "
My mother's tolerance and teaching are still fresh in my memory until today. It was my mother's words and deeds that made me understand the truth of being a man and how important the words "honesty" and "honesty" are to a person's life. (You can choose an example)