Children's education is a matter of great concern to parents. Especially after children enter adolescence, their psychology and physiology gradually mature, and their self-awareness and desire for independence increase, which will inevitably lead to various frictions with their parents. Parents are worried about their children at this stage and don't know what to do.

How to educate 18-year-old disobedient children?

(1) empathy.

Sometimes children do something wrong and adults stop it, which will make them angry. In fact, parents need to consider it from the perspective of their children. If he hadn't tried, the child wouldn't know that his method wouldn't work.

Therefore, children can get a good experience without danger. If he wants to hit a wall, you explain it to him, and he will understand and be more willing to accept it.

(2) Parents need to adjust their mentality.

It is normal for children to express their wishes in adolescence, because 18-year-old children are legal adults and feel that they have their own judgments and do not need the guidance of their parents. At this time, parents should not be angry, but sincerely congratulate their children on their growth.

(3) Learn more to help children analyze.

Children will make mistakes when they grow up. If parents only blame their children, they will make them more resistant and disobedient.

Therefore, when a child does something wrong, what parents should do is not to blame the child, but to understand the child, patiently ask him why he did it, and help him analyze the consequences of doing so, so that he can clearly understand the problem. Take the problems seriously, learn how to solve these problems in the future and control your emotions.

(4) Give children the trust they deserve.

Children often say: My parents don't believe me, they don't understand me. In this case, we should give him certain rights and believe that he can experience something independently. If he loves it, let him fly. Sooner or later, he will face this society. Therefore, parents should let go early, let their children get in touch early and grow up early!

(5) Learn to listen.

Listen patiently when communicating with children. No matter what the child says, parents should listen patiently. This is a respect for children's personality and a way to understand children and resolve conflicts.

(6) Parents should learn to grow up with their children.

The process of growth is a process of continuous learning. With the progress and development of society, there are more and more things that need to be learned and updated. Parents should not stick to the previous education model, but learn to deal with their children's education in new ways.