As teachers, parents should have a unique advantage in educating their children. However, in reality, it is not uncommon for teachers to fail in educating children. This is worth thinking about by every parent who is a teacher. In addition to the influence of teachers' children and external environment, the careless mistakes of teachers' parents in their children's education thoughts are also the most important factors that cause teachers' failure in educating their children. "I found that when tutoring other people's children, they won't, and I can talk over and over again with a smile. However, when I tutor my children, I can't hold back my fire. I always feel that this thing is very simple. I'll tell you at a glance Why not? Emotion came up. Counseling other people's children can be patient, which is a professional habit. Counseling your children, the people closest to you, is sometimes less patient. Maybe this is called the weakness of human nature.

I have studied this passage repeatedly, and so have I. I can appreciate the advantages of the most naughty student in the class, but I can always see his shortcomings to the children. Treat the most disobedient students as an amiable teacher, but treat the children's small mistakes with a stern mother's face. I have analyzed it psychologically, which is the result of my childhood education and cannot be changed. But Mr. Wang proved that the weakness of human nature can be overcome with practical actions. The key is how to treat his education. If it is sometimes clear and sometimes vague, the final result will definitely be gain and loss. Children will grow up in your wavering education and will not succeed.

Many teachers' children have a sense of superiority because they study in the school where they teach, and it is easy to cover up their shortcomings and deficiencies because of the invisible care of teachers. Because the special care of teachers will also make children dependent, once they leave this environment, they will fall out of favor and lead to psychological imbalance. Children are naive, they know best and need equality most. Any special treatment will not have a good result, but will be counterproductive.

As parents of teachers, educating children is a special field in the general category of education. The most familiar is often the least familiar. It is precisely because our teachers love children and education too much that they are most vulnerable.

Cause analysis Because parents who are teachers are easily influenced by the teacher's role mindset when educating their children, they often educate their children as teachers and in a tone regardless of the occasion, which will only make children feel that they lack feelings and produce rebellious psychology, leading to the failure or even failure of education. Because teachers are familiar with this industry, we may find fault with children's education, especially some avant-garde teachers who have made little achievements in education are more likely to find fault with children.

Teachers' children don't like learning, which is a negative confrontation of children. We need to reflect and take a warning.

For the starting point and destination of their own education, we should appreciate children, understand their psychology, tap their potential and implement scientific education according to their characteristics. Only in this way can we be worthy of our children.

As parents of teachers, we need to have a normal mind. Not all children can get excellent academic results. The core of education is to cultivate healthy personality, that is, to cultivate children's self-confidence, friendliness, strong sense of responsibility, good self-management ability and strong ability to resist setbacks. A child's healthy personality is more important than learning.

Modern society is increasingly characterized by the diversity and complexity of value orientation. It is unscientific to judge one's children's speech and behavior from the teacher's point of view indiscriminately. In addition, in the eyes of children, they value family more. If parents who are teachers ignore this point, it will easily lead to emotional alienation and educational failure.

For the starting point and destination of their own education, we should appreciate children, understand their psychology, tap their potential and implement scientific education according to their characteristics. Only in this way can we be worthy of our children. As parents of teachers, we need to have a normal mind. Not all children can get excellent academic results. The core of education is to cultivate healthy personality, that is, to cultivate children's self-confidence, friendliness, strong sense of responsibility, good self-management ability and strong ability to resist setbacks. A child's healthy personality is more important than learning.