Modern parents attach great importance to the cultivation and education of their children, hoping that their children will thrive, develop and become excellent talents. Recently, I carefully read the book Family Education, and combined with the process of educating children in recent years, I have the following five experiences:
First, let children firmly establish lofty ideals.
Idea is a fire, which can ignite the flame of hard work and enterprising; Ideal is a bright lamp, which can illuminate the course of life struggle. Ideal is our powerful spiritual motivation, and firmly establishing lofty ideals is an important guarantee for middle school students to grow into talents. So, what kind of lofty ideals should children set up? The growth of many excellent middle school students tells us that a person's ideal is more valuable only if it is integrated into the common ideal of the whole nation. Today, the common ideal of the Chinese nation is to unswervingly follow the road of Socialism with Chinese characteristics, basically realize modernization by the middle of this century, and build China into a prosperous, strong, democratic and civilized socialist country. Let the children set up lofty ideals around this great cause, study hard, improve their quality in an all-round way and improve their ability to serve the motherland in the future.
Second, let children grow up in a warm and happy environment.
Family environment is very important for children's growth. First of all, parents should care about their children's growth and create a happy environment for their growth. Children from single-parent families and divorced families have been suppressed ideologically since childhood, and their hearts and self-esteem have been hurt to a certain extent, thus affecting their normal development. In order for children to thrive, we must create a happy environment, so that children can feel the warmth of home and be happy with their parents. Some families often break out? War? Children are at a loss in panic, and older children increase their ideological burden, which affects their study and even leads to tragedy. Not long ago, this newspaper published a tragedy in which a primary school student was killed by a car. The reason was that his parents quarreled late into the night, which seriously affected his sleep and caused him to be in a trance when he went to school the next morning. Young parents love their children very much, but ignore the influence of their words and deeds on their children's growth. In our family, we never scold or scold our children. Even if the children do something wrong, I don't blame them, and I don't give them any pressure, as long as they do it right again. Children are both children and friends, and we should respect them. Only in this way can children's self-esteem and personality be established. At home, we never put any pressure on our children and let them live happily. Parents are children's first teachers, and family is the cradle. Only a happy and warm family environment can cultivate and educate children, so that they can grow sturdily, make continuous progress and achieve gratifying results.
Third, let the children learn to do their own things and set them up from an early age? Suffering? The spirit of
Let children learn to do their own things and set their own settings from an early age? Suffering? Spirit is very important for children's growth. Parents should let their children learn to take care of themselves from an early age, understand the hardships of life, and establish the idea of self-reliance from an early age, not just training? Suffering? Spirit, but also cultivate the ability to live independently and become an independent member of society. In Japan, special attention is paid to raising children? Suffering? Consciously, whether in kindergarten or primary and secondary schools, children should be required to run in cold weather to cultivate their spirit of hard work and perseverance to overcome difficulties; There is a famous Eton Middle School in England, and almost all students can be admitted to famous universities. One of its experiences is to make students suffer. There is no heating in middle schools. In extremely cold winter, only students are allowed to sleep with blankets and take cold showers. Is this intentional? Bitter his mind, strain his bones and muscles, and starve his body and skin? Let students get tempered; In France, parents never let their children spend money indiscriminately, and even brothers and sisters don't easily borrow money from each other. If they want to use pocket money, they have to work, educate themselves and rely on their parents; In China, children's body and mind are becoming more and more fragile. They often show cowardice, loneliness, willfulness and selfishness, because they don't know what hunger, fatigue, difficulties and poverty are, which is related to their smooth life. Therefore, the more parents protect and replace, the more dependent and incompetent children are. Diligence is the seed of happiness, laziness is the bane of corruption, and comfort is the biggest enemy of children's growth and the biggest hidden danger buried in their hearts. Therefore, it is necessary for children to go through certain hardships, and life after going through storms in adversity will be more brilliant.
Fourth, extensively cultivate children's hobbies and constantly improve their quality.
The development of mass organizations needs high-quality talents. Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation. Cultivating children should not only pay attention to learning, but also pay attention to their all-round development. My approach is to provide all kinds of conditions to cultivate children's hobbies in an all-round way. Children participate in some beneficial social practice activities from an early age and improve their quality through practical learning. I feel that children in the future will definitely not learn well. To advocate quality education now is to make children develop morally, intellectually, physically, aesthetically and laboriously. Parents must master this principle when cultivating their children. They should not only focus on their studies, but also let their children have their own characteristics and specialties. It is reported that China students get together abroad, and students from all over the world are singing and dancing on the stage. All kinds of musical instruments are very good, and they play well. Everyone shook their heads when China students were invited to the stage. You push me and I push you, but none of them can play. When it comes to learning, domestic students are the hardest, but they are a little behind in other aspects, which is not acceptable. In order to cultivate children's interest in learning and reading habits, I often take him to the bookstore to buy books. I chose it for him at first, and then he chose it himself. From primary school to now, there are many books at home, from which children broaden their horizons, enrich their knowledge and improve their quality. In addition, organize outdoor activities regularly to broaden children's horizons, and cultivate children not to keep their children at home all the time, but to take them out often, so that children can move happily in nature and novel environments. There are some places with special commemorative significance that children will remember for life.
Fifth, cultivate children's honest and kind character from an early age.
I often communicate with my children and reason with them through some small things to make them really understand? Why did Pi Nuo Qi really change from a puppet to a child? . What he needs, I will meet him reasonably, make it clear to him unreasonably, and resolutely not bargain with him, so as not to let him form the habit of spending money indiscriminately. Through every little thing in daily life, cultivate children's good qualities such as pure friendship, mutual help and harmonious coexistence.
A second child is the future of the motherland, and it is every parent's wish to have a successful child. In the process of educating children, I believe that every parent has accumulated some experience, and educating children well is our common goal. Every child has his strong points. In children's family education, I think it is very important to encourage children, guide their interests and cultivate their persistent good study habits. I have two profound feelings:
1, encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. In the process of learning, we try to apply the content of learning to life and games, which makes him feel a lot of fun.
2. Actively cooperate with schools and teachers to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education.
Primary school is the initial stage of children's lifelong learning. Obviously, this period is particularly important. This requires us to consult our children's teachers and parents with excellent experience. Let's work together to train the next generation of talents!
The experience of parents teaching their children Article 3 Because most children are only children now, their living conditions are good, and they are afraid of falling into their hands and melting into their mouths. It is difficult to give children an opportunity to grow up independently, which directly leads to the lack of children's body and personality. The growth of children is inseparable from the education of schools and teachers, and is closely related to the cultivation of families and parents. Family education is very important now, and no one can ignore it. Now, I will talk about some parents' experiences in educating their children:
1. Attach importance to children's ideological and moral education. People's quality is the first factor and the key to determine children's future life path. Children will inevitably be negatively affected by the surrounding environment during their growth. Therefore, we should positively educate children in everything, help them distinguish right from wrong, be true and kind, cultivate their good qualities such as kindness, tolerance, positive optimism, compassion, objectivity and justice, love the collective, respect teachers and abide by all rules and regulations. And parents are children's? Cloning? Object, parents are imitators and role models of all children's behaviors. If children want to have good quality, they must first start from themselves.
2. Pay attention to cultivate children's behavior habits. Once good behavior habits are developed, children will benefit for life. First of all, let children do what they can, including driving to school, carrying schoolbags, washing, dressing and doing housework as much as they can. Secondly, let children develop the habit of independent learning and thinking. In view of children's hyperactivity and inattention, consciously guide children to make their own study plans, complete their homework within the specified time, do their own inspections, and parents finally do a comprehensive inspection.
3, pay attention to cultivate children's self-esteem, children also have self-esteem. Some parents always like to say that their children are not good in front of others, which often backfires. Children have rebellious psychology in their hearts, and children will think, I did so well, and my parents said I didn't do well. Anyway, the good is not good, the bad is so bad, I simply don't do it well. Don't always stare at children's shortcomings, children should always praise them.
4. Be good at tapping children's potential advantages and cultivating children's specialties and interests. Every child has his strengths, so parents should develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses, be good at tapping their children's strengths and consciously cultivate them. Children's thinking is born out of curiosity and interest, and parents should never erase the traces of their children's flashes.