The United States "makes housework plans for children." ; Britain "gave children a chance to fail." ; Canada "let children learn to play." ; Germany "let children argue with adults." . Foreign family education mainly refers to western family education. Their focus is to cultivate social people who can adapt to various environments and live independently. Based on this concept, many families in western countries attach great importance to the cultivation and self-exercise of their children. A good habit will often benefit children for life. Do you often compare your children with other children? Maybe some of our parents unconsciously killed their children's nature and talent. The following article is suitable for people who are looking for family education methods.

Britain: "Give children a chance to fail." When children can't do something, the British concept is not simply not to let children do it or parents make simple arrangements, but to provide another opportunity. For example, if a child washes the dishes and wets his clothes, he will be instructed to do it again and taught how to avoid failure.

America: "Make a housework plan for children." American parents teach their children to do housework and publish housework content once a week. Assign specific tasks to children and determine the deadline for completing the tasks; Take turns to do some work, so that every child has the opportunity to do the work that he is not interested in or the easiest to do; Check the child's completion, so that the child has a sense of accomplishment in completing the task because of his own labor.

Canada: "Let children learn to play." At home, children rarely do their homework, and parents don't talk endlessly about learning. They are concerned that children can relax all day, play games and toys, and learn knowledge that books can't.

Germany: "Let children argue with adults." Germans believe that the debate between two generations is an important step for the next generation to reach adulthood. Therefore, they encourage children to argue with their parents and express their views freely.

David Lewis, an American scholar, summed up 40 articles on educating children, which embodies the western family education thoughts and has certain reference significance for China's parents' family education.

1, patiently and honestly answer all questions raised by children.

2. Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by children.

3. Set up a display platform so that children can fully display their works on it.

Don't scold the child for his messy room or desk, as long as it is related to his creative activities.

5. Give children a room or part of a room, mainly for children to play.

6. Explain to your child that he is already cute and doesn't need to show himself.

7. Let children do what they can.

8. Help children make personal plans and how to complete them.

9. Take the child to places he is interested in.

10, help children modify their homework.

1 1. Help children communicate with children of different social and cultural classes normally.

12, parents should develop reasonable behavior habits and pay attention to let their children learn to do it.

13, never tell a child that he is worse than other children.

14. Allow children to participate in planning housework and travel.

15. Provide children with books and materials and let them do what they like.

16. Teach children to communicate freely with all kinds of adults.

17, read something to the children regularly.

18, let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.

19, encourage children to make up stories and fantasize.

20. Take children's personal requirements seriously.

2 1, take time to be alone with your children every day.

22. Don't abuse and punish children.

23. Don't make fun of a child just because he made a mistake.

24. Praise children for reciting poems, telling stories and singing.

25. Let children think independently.

26. Make an experimental plan in detail to help children learn more.

27. Allow children to play with all kinds of waste.

28. Encourage children to find problems and then solve them.

29. In what children do, constantly look for places worthy of praise.

Don't praise children in an empty and insincere way.

3 1, honestly evaluate your feelings for your children.

There is no topic that parents can't discuss with their children at all.

33. Give your child a chance to make a real decision.

34. Help children become individual.

35. Help children find TV programs worthy of attention.

36. Give play to children's ability to actively understand their talents.

37. Don't look down on your child's failure and say, "Neither will I."

38. Encourage children not to rely on adults as much as possible.

39. Trust the child's reason and trust him.

40. Let the child finish the basic part of his work independently, even if there will be no positive results.

There is a philosophical Song of Fertility circulating in Europe and America. Now the lyrics are copied as follows for your reference:

Children who grow up picky learn to be harsh;

Children who grow up in hostility learn to fight;

Children who grow up laughing learn to be shy;

Children who grow up in humiliation learn to feel guilty;

Children who grow up in tolerance learn to be patient;

Encourage growing children to learn to be confident;

Children who grow up in praise learn to appreciate;

Children who grow up in fairness learn integrity;

Support children to grow up and learn to trust;

Children who grow up in love learn to love themselves;

Children who grow up with friends can feel care.