1, the hope of the family lies in the children. For many people, after getting married and having children, they are busy working every day to earn money to support their families and raise children. For the sake of children, they can give everything, such as enrolling children in various interest classes and cram schools. I hope my children can win at the starting line, mainly because the pressure of social competition is really too great now. No family wants their children to lose at the starting line and must do it conditionally.
2. pin hopes on children, including parents' own expectations. Whether you admit it or not, your parents' expectations of you all contain their own expectations. Maybe they didn't reach that height, so you hope your children have the opportunity and ability to reach that height. But sometimes it will also cause children's troubles, because everyone has their own ideas. If their ideas are imposed on children, children may not accept them or even resolutely oppose them.
Don't pin all your hopes on children. In life, we will also see many families with excellent parents and children who are not so excellent. On the one hand, it is related to children's own learning. On the other hand, maybe children don't like their parents' way and want to go their own way, but they are blocked by their parents. Rebellion makes them run counter to their parents, but in the end they are disappointed by their parents and frustrated by their children.
Have expectations for children and create good conditions for them, but don't impose your own ideas on them. Everyone has his own ideas and his own life.