Kong Rong gave up the biggest pear.

Once upon a time, there was a child named Kong Rong. There are six brothers in his family, and he ranks sixth. Everyone calls him Xiao Liuer, because he is lively and easy-going and everyone likes him. Although there are many brothers in the family, my parents are very strict with each of them: study hard; Be polite to people; Speak kindly; In any case, brothers should be humble to each other, not just thinking about themselves; Others have difficulties to help. Kong Rong is young, but he clearly remembers what his parents said. He likes to do things, always rushing to sweep the floor and serve dishes, which is very likable.

When Kong Rong was four years old, one day, one of his father's students came to see the teacher and Jenny and brought many pears. The guest asked Kong Rong to share the pears with everyone. After his father nodded in agreement, Kong Rong Jr. stood up and distributed pears to everyone. He first brought the biggest pear to the guests; Then choose two big ones for mom and dad; Then I gave the big ones to my brothers; Finally, he took the smallest pear among many for himself. The guest asked Kong Rong why he picked up the smallest one. Kong Rong replied: "I am the youngest, of course I want to eat the youngest." The guest listened to Kong Rong's answer and was full of praise. Dad nodded with satisfaction.

(2) fairy tales that are civilized and polite.

There are many animals living in the zoo, including peacocks, buffaloes, elephants, sheep, dogs and cats. One of the peacocks is very beautiful. This is rude and arrogant. It shows off in front of other animals all day, saying how beautiful and smart it is. Other animals are in trouble. They never want to help, and sometimes they satirize others as idiots. So animals hate it and don't play with it.

One morning, the peacock went out to play. It walked and walked, and suddenly it got lost. Just when he was anxious, he saw an old buffalo grazing opposite. He swaggered up to the buffalo, spread his beautiful tail and asked, "Hello! How to get to the nearby park? " The old buffalo ignored him, and the peacock thought he couldn't hear him, so he asked, "Hello! How to get to the nearby park? " The old buffalo still didn't look at it. It continued to shout, "Hey! How to get to the nearby park? Hey! Did you hear that? I am asking you! " At this moment, the old buffalo turned around and glanced at it. Without saying anything, he turned and went to eat grass again. It saw the buffalo ignore it and wagged its tail and left. He walked and came to a big tree and saw a sheep and a dog playing under the tree. He went over and asked, "Hello! Excuse me, how to get to the nearby park? " Sheep and dogs ignored him, thinking that they were too happy to hear, and asked loudly, "Hello! How to get to the nearby park? " They didn't even look at it, so they continued to play there. Peacock had to leave. Walking, he came to a pond and saw an elephant eating grass. Then a cat came from a distance. The cat walked up to the elephant and asked, "Grandpa elephant, how can I get to the nearby park?" The elephant turned his head and said with a smile, "The kitten is so polite. Well, go along this road to the end and then turn left. " The kitten said "thank you" to the elephant and left. The peacock thought beside him, why did the kitten answer when she asked them? Why didn't they tell me? No, I'll ask! He walked up to the elephant and asked, "Hello! How to get to the nearby park? " The elephant ignored it. It said loudly, "Why are you willing to tell the kitten, but not me?" The elephant turned around and smiled and said, "feed this and that when you leave." Who are you asking? " ? Didn't you see it just now? I'm so polite. You, try to express yourself, don't blame others for saying you, you should be polite! "

After listening to the elephant's words, the peacock had a fever on his face and lowered his head and said, "Thank you for your teaching. I will correct it. " From then on, peacocks are no longer proud and never show off in front of other animals.

Peacock is polite every time he greets others. Animals play with him.

(3) Tell a polite story, the simpler the better! ! !

Little monkey learns etiquette.

Little monkey, rude. The teacher came without saying hello; Shoot rabbits. He doesn't apologize; When he met the old man, he didn't give way ... mother monkey was very angry. He said to the little monkey, "Why don't you learn manners?" It is more troublesome to learn etiquette, and it is more convenient to get money. The little monkey said to his mother, "give me some money and I'll buy manners." My mother laughed and cried. On second thought, he gave me some money. The little monkey took the money and ran happily along the street ... When he came to the first shop, the little monkey shouted, "Hey, is it polite to buy here?" No one answered. When he came to Bill's shop, the little monkey shouted, "Hey, is it polite to buy here?" No one answered. One, two ... The little monkey went to thirty-three stores, but he didn't buy manners. There is only one shop left, which is owned by Uncle Goat. Uncle goat is usually very kind to the little monkey, and the little monkey respects him very much. The little monkey thought, if Uncle Goat is willing to help, I can certainly buy politeness. Seeing that Uncle Goat was busy, he waited for a while. "Uncle Goat, are you polite to sell here?" The little monkey asked softly. Uncle goat smiled: "silly boy, politeness can't be bought, you can only learn." Little monkey didn't buy manners and walked back with his head down. He said shyly, "Sorry, I didn't buy etiquette." After listening, my mother happily served the food: "Are you hungry? Eat quickly. " The little monkey is already very hungry. He gulped down delicious food and thought, "I'd better be a mother." I want to thank her. " "Thank you, Mom! A very polite word flew out of the monkey's mouth. Mother smiled after listening: "son, you didn't buy manners, but you learned." "

(4) tell civilized and polite stories.

First, Kong Rong let pears.

Kong Rong (153—208), a native of Lu (now Qufu, Shandong), was a famous writer in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian 'an. His literary creation was highly praised by Wei Wendi Cao Pi. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very clever when he was young, but also a typical example of paying attention to brotherhood, mutual help and friendship. ?

When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! " ?

At an early age, Kong Rong learned the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then,? Kong Rong let the story of pear spread for thousands of years and became a model of unity and friendship.

Second, the story of Cheng Menxue

Cheng Menxue Pear tells the story of Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars in Song Dynasty, asking Cheng Yi and Cheng Hao for advice.

Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Cheng's theory was inherited and developed by Zhu, which is called "Cheng-Zhu School". Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect.

You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.

According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes.

After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo, met Yang Heyou, and pretended to be surprised and said, "Ah! Ah! Sages have been calling here for a long time! " It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.

Third, did Emperor Han Ming respect the teacher?

When Emperor Liu Zhuang was a prince, Dr. Huan Rong was his teacher. Later, he succeeded to the throne and became emperor. He once went to Taichang House in person, sat in the east of Huanrong, set up a few sticks, and listened to the teacher's instructions as he did in the past. He also called hundreds of North Korean officials and students taught by Huan Rong to the Taichang Hall to pay tribute to his disciples.

When Huan Rong was ill, Ming Di sent someone to offer condolences, and even went to see the teacher himself. Every time I visit my teacher, Ming Emperor City gets off the bus as soon as he enters the street to show his respect. After entering the door, I often hold the teacher's skinny hand and cry silently for a long time.

The emperor of the dynasty did this to Huan Rong, so "the assistant ministers, generals and doctors who asked for illness were afraid to come to the door by car again, and they all worshipped under the bed." When Huan Rong died, Ming Di changed his clothes. I attended the funeral in person and made proper arrangements for the children.

4. Ceng Zi's retreat?

"Ceng Zi is not at his seat" is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? "

Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " ?

Here, "avoiding the seat" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.

5. Lenin makes way

On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way.

Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the woman go upstairs, and then he went downstairs.

⑤ A polite story

Kong Rong qinli. And ...

Because of the border issue, Zhang Ying's family had an argument with their neighbors. Both of them are well-known families in the local area, and neither of them is to be outdone. After Zhang Ying knew it, he wrote a letter to persuade his family. The letter said, "A thousand miles to write a book is just a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" . The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "After receiving the letter, Zhang Ying's family gave up three feet of land on the original border according to his meaning to show that they no longer competed. Neighbors saw Zhang's handling of the matter in this way and felt that there was a problem, so they followed the example of Zhang and gave up three feet of land. So the six-foot driveway is full of flowers. For a time, the methods of the two companies to deal with problems were spread as beautiful talks.

* * * is one of the most influential figures in the last century. He has developed the virtue of being polite to his elders since childhood. Later, when he became president, he was able to treat people with courtesy. 1959, Chairman Mao returned to Shaoshan and specially invited the elderly of relatives and friends to dinner. Chairman Mao toasted the old people, and the old people said, "Chairman, how dare you toast!" Chairman Mao replied: "It is right to respect the elderly and the virtuous!" This shows how important politeness is.

6.celebrities tell polite stories

Kong Rong qinli. And ...

Because of the border issue, Zhang Ying's family had a special dispute with their neighbors. Both of them are well-known families in the local area, and neither of them is to be outdone. After Zhang Ying knew it, he wrote a letter to persuade his family. The letter said, "A thousand miles to write a book is just a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" . The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "After receiving the letter, Zhang Ying's family gave up three feet of land on the original border according to his meaning to show that they no longer competed. Neighbors saw Zhang's handling of the matter in this way and felt that there was a problem, so they followed the example of Zhang and gave up three feet of land. So the six-foot driveway is full of flowers. For a time, the methods of the two companies to deal with problems were spread as beautiful talks.

* * * is one of the most influential figures in the last century. He has developed the virtue of being polite to his elders since childhood. Later, when he became president, he was able to treat people with courtesy. 1959, Chairman Mao returned to Shaoshan and specially invited the elderly of relatives and friends to dinner. Chairman Mao toasted the old people, and the old people said, "Chairman, how dare you toast!" Chairman Mao replied: "It is right to respect the elderly and the virtuous!" This shows how important politeness is.

7. Be polite and tell civilized stories.

The story of Chengmen Sydney

In the Northern Song Dynasty, there was a very studious young man named Shi Yang.

Shi Yang was very clever and studied hard since he was a child. He often says to others: "studying is like eating for me, it is my inner need ... so I can't relax."

One day, Shi Yang met a problem he didn't understand, so he made an appointment with his friend You Zuo to ask his teacher Cheng Yi. Arrived at the teacher's house, just in time for the teacher's nap. In order not to disturb the teacher's rest, they stood in the yard and waited quietly.

Unfortunately, it snowed heavily that day. They stood outside, covered with a thick layer of snow. When the teacher woke up and pushed the door and saw them, the snow on the ground was already more than a foot thick. Where Shi Yang and Youzuo stood, two pairs of deep snow pits were left.

Compensation for pen and time

Wang Hua is doing his homework in the classroom at noon. Xiaohong walked past him and accidentally dropped Wang Hua's pencil box on the ground, and her pen broke. Xiaohong quickly apologized to him and claimed to buy a pen to compensate him in the future. Seeing this situation, Wang Hua's psychological outburst suddenly disappeared without a trace and said, "It doesn't matter, just solve it", so he recovered his usual calm.