0 1 Children learn to control their emotions.
Out-of-control emotions are like wild horses, which not only affect children's ability to get along with the world, but also affect their future career development and family happiness. Children who can control their emotions have higher emotional intelligence, can establish positive partnerships, and can better get along with the world in the future.
Children can cry if they want to.
If every time a child is wronged, he just bears it, which is actually a failure of being a parent. Because children are not sure whether they are loved or valued, they dare not speak out even if they are in pain, and even if they are happy, they cannot completely release themselves and live in inferiority and embarrassment. He doesn't suppress himself, and he doesn't please others. He is always loyal to his true self, so that he can live a sunny life.
Children will not be defeated by bad mood.
Far-sighted parents know how to "observe the words and observe the colors" of their children, capture their psychological changes in time, solve their doubts in real time, and avoid their "stubborn" children. Children with emotional support have the confidence to cope with difficulties.
Children know how to appreciate themselves
It is actually a gratifying thing to raise children to feel good about themselves. He won't feel inferior because of poor grades, he won't sell himself short because he can't compare with other students, and he won't affect his judgment because of other people's comments. Optimism, self-confidence, knowing how to appreciate and accept themselves, such children have a higher sense of self-worth and can get happiness and satisfaction in any situation.
Children can show confidence whenever and wherever they are.
Those negative comments constantly remind the child of his shortcomings, and he will gradually become timid and dare not show himself easily. Dugan's law tells us that the strong are not necessarily winners, but sooner or later, victory belongs to confident people and far-sighted parents who know how to give their children strong confidence. Children who are supported by others have the courage to go forward.
Children can experience the joy of being alone.
Children who can enjoy solitude can concentrate on one thing and maintain a high degree of concentration. This kind of children learn more efficiently, are better at calming down and thinking independently, are not easily influenced by external sounds, and can live their true selves.
Children are always immersed in reading.
The more a child loves reading, the stronger his understanding and learning ability, which further stimulates his thirst for knowledge and likes reading more and more. Children who love reading since childhood will have obvious advantages after entering middle school. Making children "friends with books" is the wealth of his life.
Children like to play carefree.
Hong Lan, a brain scientist, said: "Play is not the enemy of learning, but the partner of learning, which is the nutrient for brain growth." Children pay more attention when playing, their brains are more flexible, and they can develop their social skills while playing with their peers, which can improve their comprehensive quality in many ways.
Children know how to treat others well.
Character can determine a child's fate more than ability. If a child has no bottom line of kindness, he is likely to do something against morality or law when he grows up. It will affect the harmony of interpersonal relationships, endanger personal development, and also endanger others and society.
10 The child has an enviable good sleep.
Children's poor sleep not only affects their health, but also has problems such as irritability, inattention and decreased reaction ability during the day, which affects their study. Children whose brains are fully relaxed at night have enough energy to grow up well during the day.
Excellent children are all the same: kind, brave, confident, conscious, and even sweet to sleep. Can not only enjoy the fun of playing, but also bear a person's loneliness and have a strong heart. Such a healthy child is inseparable from the hard work of his parents. In the process of children's growth, parents are the roots and children are the fruits. What kind of education parents give their children, what kind of personality and destiny children will have.