1, to understand the pros and cons of puppy love, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children. Most parents will choose to stop puppy love when they see their children and communicate with their children in harsh language. Parents should know the pros and cons of puppy love, take the initiative to find their children and let them express their views on puppy love.
2. Parents should give their children a correct view of love. "Love" doesn't mean to give up everything and put into feelings, but under certain conditions, two people make constant efforts for each other's future. After children understand things, parents should take the initiative to convey the correct concept of love to their children.
3. Let children know their true feelings. Don't think others are nice to you. This is feelings. Being together for a long time will kill everything. Parents should stay with their children and know what they really think. "Puppy love" is a normal expression of children's feelings. What parents should do is not to stop it severely, but to understand their children's true feelings in a gentle way.
How to talk to puppy love children
1, the children are in puppy love, first understand their love relationship from the side. Is it out of curiosity about love itself or love for another person? Re-evaluate the weight of this favorite. Light likes can disappear because of the obstruction of teachers and parents, and heavy likes may turn into disgust because of the obstruction of teachers and parents, and the degree needs to be grasped by children and parents and teachers.
No matter whether this relationship is light or heavy, it involves what to do after the college entrance examination. Don't give up a better university because of your lover. Tell children that if love is heavy enough, long-distance love will not hurt their feelings. As long as you are willing, you can work in the unified area after graduating from college without delay, but there is only one college entrance examination, which is a turning point of fate and cannot be ignored.
3. If one party intentionally interferes with the other party's university choice on the grounds of love, it is necessary for parents to be rational and emotional. If they can choose the best university, don't be wronged to choose a worse university. The higher you go, the better people you meet. In general, the better the marriage partner, the higher the family's ability to resist risks.