In family education, "teaching by example" is the best way of education. But this way of pretending to be forced really disapproves. Because children don't know that their parents are pretending, then there will be shadows in their hearts. I think there is something wrong with mom and morality. Therefore, it is necessary to choose the appropriate way to guide, and children should not have such an idea.

Let's take a look at the role of words and deeds in children's education. Word for word means that parents teach their children what they have learned in life and work. The key is to convince people by reasoning. As parents, we should not only let our children know what they should do, but also let them know why. Therefore, when communicating with children, parents can't just stand in the position of parents and criticize their children in a critical and complaining tone. Even if children make mistakes, we should tell them the truth after making it clear, and we can't always compare children with "other people's children"; In the process of educating children, we should communicate with them patiently and let them understand the purpose of parents' criticism of education. Lead by example because children are very good at learning from their parents and elders around them when they grow up. Parents' words and deeds will be remembered by children and have a great influence on their character and behavior.

Therefore, when educating children, parents who want their children should do it first; If parents want their children not to do it, don't do it first; Parents will never force their children to do what they can't do; If children want to do what they want, parents should guide them rationally. Educating children is a long-term thing. Parents also need to be themselves when educating their children. If parents can't do things themselves, how can they ask their children to do them? Leading by example is not only about parents preaching in front of their children, but also about parents setting an example for their children in life and work. This is the right way to help their children grow up.