1. love and care: give children a growing environment full of love and care, and let them feel the warmth and support of the family.

2. Respect and trust: respect children's personality and interests, trust children's abilities, and encourage children to think and solve problems independently.

3. Communication and listening: Keep good communication with children, listen to their thoughts and feelings, and pay attention to their needs and development.

4. Set rules and boundaries: Set reasonable rules and boundaries for children to help them establish good behavior habits and social responsibility.

5. Encouragement and support: Encourage children to try new things, challenge their own limits, and support their efforts in learning and interest.

6. Set an example: As a parent, you should set an example and let your children learn the correct values and outlook on life from your words and deeds.

7. Cultivate independence: educate children to live independently and cultivate their self-care ability and ability to adapt to society.

8. Pay attention to EQ education: cultivate children's empathy, emotional management and interpersonal skills to help them better integrate into society.

9. Let go moderately: give children some freedom, let them learn to take responsibility and face setbacks, and cultivate their autonomy and problem-solving ability.

10. Family atmosphere: create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, let children grow up happily, and form a positive outlook on life and values.