I find
When you are happy, completely relax yourself, accompany your children wholeheartedly, follow the rhythm of your children, and be really happy for their happiness.
When you are impatient, your heart is full of irritability and anxiety. You either anticipate the anxiety in the distance in advance, or cling to the majesty of motherhood. But when you look back at your children, they seem to be just happy and present, with no distractions.
Parents' emotions deeply affect their children. Our education comes from words and deeds, not preaching.
Parents are actually ferrymen for their children.
On the road of children's growth, we can't decide where they are going and where their hearts are, but we can at least tell them where we are going in the company, at least where we will wait for them when they are unable to struggle.
Therefore, when we focus on our own boat and direction, it is the greatest help for children.