Guide adolescent boys to have a correct sexual concept. Adolescence is a sensitive and rebellious period, which is prone to rebellious psychology. Parents should have a correct guiding role in this issue. As for how to guide education correctly, I have sorted out the correct sexual concepts for guiding adolescent boys. I welcome your reference and hope it will help you.
Guide adolescent boys to have a correct sexual concept 1 1, and explain the physiological changes of adolescent boys with a scientific attitude.
Boys who enter adolescence have obvious changes in their physiological characteristics, such as voice change, long Adam's apple and vigorous hair in all parts. Parents should explain these changes from a scientific point of view, so that children can understand that these changes are based on scientific theory, normal and will be experienced by every boy.
2. Spend more time with your children to get closer to the parent-child relationship.
Some sensitive topics are not suitable for communication in very serious occasions. For example, adolescent children have a good impression on their peers and love them, which may lead to puppy love. In view of such problems, parents can talk about these topics with their children in a relaxed environment, such as taking a walk while eating, to avoid causing psychological stress to their children.
3. How to explain the phenomenon of adolescent nocturnal emission in boys?
In particular, some children live on campus and feel embarrassed when they have nocturnal emission, fearing that they will be found and laughed at by their peers. This topic is suitable for dad to communicate. Tell the child that this phenomenon means that he is growing into an adult, and many boys of the same age will experience it, but some are early and some are late. Tell children to change their underwear frequently, clean them in time and pay attention to hygiene. Wear loose pants at ordinary times and loose underwear at night.
In short, parents should not find this topic difficult to talk about, which is also an important part of family education. Parents need to explain some physiological and psychological changes in adolescence to their children, some from a scientific point of view, and some need to communicate in a relaxed environment.
In fact, if these questions are asked by children on their own initiative, it shows that children's psychology is relatively healthy and pure, and they are afraid that some children will be afraid to ask, which will easily lead to problems. This requires parents to take the initiative to guide and avoid psychological problems.
Guide adolescent boys to have a correct sexual concept. 2 According to an authoritative online survey report, girls often enter much earlier than boys. In adolescence, girls tend to be more mature than boys, all because in adolescence, girls will take the lead in making some psychological changes. However, if we don't pay attention to mental health, it will also bring great trouble to girls. Today, let's take a look at what psychological changes girls will have during adolescence. At present, there are a series of sexual problems such as one-night stand, multiple sexual partners and early pregnancy. The main reason is disharmony. Let's take a look at how parents correctly guide teenagers' sexual concepts.
Most teenagers feel that having sexual experience is a very respectable behavior, because most of their friends have sexual experience. If not, they and everyone have no topic and face.
What's more, he even prides himself on having multiple sexual partners or multiple one-night stands at the same time, showing off in his circle of friends.
Over time, it has formed an ethos among teenagers and even become a trend. Everyone takes sexual experience for granted. No big deal.
On the other hand, the lack of sex education makes teenagers unable to protect themselves correctly in incorrect sexual concepts, which leads to many teenagers being infected with sexually transmitted diseases prematurely due to unclean sexual intercourse and early pregnancy.
It's no news that every winter and summer vacation is the peak of hospital abortion. Moreover, in recent years, the age of abortion has become younger and younger.
Many girls, after abortion, didn't tell their parents because they were afraid of their parents' accusations, didn't pay attention to it when they recovered, and even got pregnant again, which led to the infection of sexually transmitted diseases such as acute vaginitis, which should not appear in fancy girls.
From a social perspective, the rapid development of video websites in recent years has also given teenagers more channels to get in touch with pornographic films and videos, as well as the unhealthy environment of various online games, which is also a factor affecting teenagers' incorrect sexual concepts.
Of course, we can't comment that post-90s teenagers don't love themselves and their sexual attitudes are incorrect. Most post-90s teenagers still have healthy sexual attitudes and a strong sense of self-protection.
However, how to correctly guide teenagers' sexual concept will be a topic that parents, schools, teachers and society have been paying attention to and studying.
Guide adolescent boys to have a correct sexual concept 3 1 and talk about sex with their children generously.
When children are curious about sex, the more secretive their parents are, the more curious they will be. Especially adolescent children, if parents don't directly answer their children's questions about sex, or reprimand their children for asking such questions, the more they want to explore.
Therefore, if parents want to educate their children about sex in adolescence, they should talk about sex with their children generously, let them understand that this is a very common thing, and let them face sex frankly.
2. Let children know about the physical changes in adolescence.
Adolescent children, the body will also undergo certain changes. At this time, they will panic because of physical changes. At this time, parents should let their children know about the physical changes in adolescence and let them know about their own physical changes. Parents can let their children know something about their bodies through some books or sexual enlightenment videos, so that children will not explore their bodies out of curiosity.
3. Let children understand the consequences and responsibilities of sex.
Adolescents are sensitive and rebellious. If parents do not establish a correct sexual concept for their children during this period, what impact will it bring?
The influence of parents' failure to establish a correct sexual concept for their children
1, physical influence
Adolescent children are curious about sex. If parents don't establish a correct concept of sex for their children, then children will taste the forbidden fruit early because of their curiosity about sex.
Eating forbidden fruit early is for the health of children. There are many such examples now, such as adolescent girls having abortions and so on. It is irreversible for children's health.
2. Psychological influence
When the child is in adolescence, parents do not establish a correct sexual concept for the child, which will also have a certain impact on the child's psychology.
Because children in this period are very sensitive and fragile and curious about sex. If parents don't solve their children's worries and doubts at this time and don't establish a correct sexual concept for her, children will taste the forbidden fruit prematurely because of curiosity, and the harm is not only physical, but also psychological.
Adolescent children, although sensitive and rebellious, will know how to protect themselves and become obedient as long as their parents guide them well and establish a correct sexual concept for their children.