Criticizing children calmly helps to maintain a good parent-child relationship and achieve the purpose of criticism. Therefore, it is best to control your temper and calm yourself down. When you criticize and exhort softly, you put children's interests in a position of respect and protect their self-esteem. Parents' hearts and children's hearts are in an equal communication position. Of course, children are easily moved from the depths of their hearts, which is followed by sincere love for their parents. Beating and cursing this simple and rude way of tutoring can not only solve any problems, but will intensify the contradictions between the two sides. When a child is beaten, he has no comfort in his heart. The pain of flesh and blood makes them feel resentment, rebellion and fear. As a result, the feelings between children and parents are becoming more and more indifferent and the gap is getting deeper and deeper, and individual children may even have a tendency to violence.
In the face of disobedient children, the purpose of parental education is to make children understand the truth and correct their mistakes. If the way of beating and cursing is adopted, it will not only lack the educational effect, but also hurt the child's mind and cause tension or estrangement between the child and his parents.
Success often says: "Only by controlling emotions can we control the future." The same is true of educating children. Therefore, when educating children, parents must control their emotions. Only by paying attention to controlling children's emotions and behaviors can we educate children well. [comparison] [comparison] [come to see me]