First, we should actively look for a suitable partner after divorce. Because only with a complete emotional life can we face life and children's education with a healthy heart. Some people are unwilling to remarry for their children after divorce and devote themselves to their children. What children feel is not all happy love, but repressed love and heavy love, but the parent-child relationship is not good.

Second, don't use "exceeding authority" to discipline children after remarriage. Treat each other's children like friends and appreciate each other's children. Don't just look at your own shortcomings, but appreciate each other's children. The environment gave birth to a child, and the original living environment will definitely leave a side you hate for the child. But you can't completely change each other's children. Being together for a long time can only affect them. The best way is to invite their biological parents to educate them.

Third, divorced parents must never attack each other's "mistakes" and speak ill of each other in front of their children. Divorce is a matter between adults, so if you say that a child's father or mother is worthless, the child will be full of contradictions, anger and hatred.

Fourth, grandparents of divorced families should also be parents who don't blame their children in front of them. Bad feelings can't solve problems, only let children learn hatred and anger. Giving children a harmonious family environment is the greatest love for children.

Fifth, parents should guide their children to accept new family members as soon as possible. Only by accepting a new father or mother as soon as possible can children better face their growth.

Sixth, family of origin had better get together regularly. This will help children better feel the love of their biological parents, educate children and cultivate their ability to love and be loved.