Yu said: "If the family is a copier and the parents are originals, then the children are photocopies." Every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and they have no problems. There is something wrong with growing up, and the root cause must be adults. Many times, we have to learn to find reasons from ourselves. If you want to change your child's behavior habits, you must first change yourself. Children grow up only once, and there is no way to withdraw and start over. Therefore, every parent should persist in learning and growth. The best education for children is not to be lazy in education, not to be lax, and strive to be a better self.

1. Pay attention to company and be a parent who is not absent.

Children's birthday parties, parent-teacher conferences, performances, competitions, etc. ; Even if you are a silent audience, you will make your children feel love.

2. Participate in growth and be a playful parent.

Put down your parents' airs and other trifles at the right time. Go crazy and have fun with the kids. It can not only establish close parent-child relationship, but also stimulate children's initiative.

Study hard and be a learning parent.

Blindly asking children to learn, but never holding up books, will only inspire children's "rebellious psychology" invisibly. Only when parents love learning can they set a good example and make their children fall in love with learning.

4. Respect children and be lovely parents.

Don't blame the children blindly, kneel down to see them in time; More is to stand on the child's point of view and see the world in TA's eyes.

Parents and children should be equal, respect each other and have the same personality.

So are you.

5. Understand children and be considerate parents.

We have all experienced the pain of not being understood; So don't pass this feeling on to our children. When parents understand and care about their children psychologically, children will get closer and closer to us.

6. Distinguish right from wrong and be a reasonable parent.

To err is human. Parents should be brave enough to admit their mistakes. If parents are sensible to distinguish right from wrong, enlightened and not pedantic, and don't scold rudely when things happen, children will gradually become sensible, empathetic and understand responsibility and responsibility.