20 17 July 10 to July 1 1 "Believe that change will happen"

Page count: 224 pages

Recommended index: 5

Reading days: 2 days

This is a book about family education, a book about Satya, and a book about parenting education that truly combines Satya's theory with China's reality. It's really a good recommendation.

There are many cases that are very, very in line with the current reality in China, such as how to deal with the conflict of educational ideas in the operation of It in the family, such as how to stipulate rules and freedoms. Of course, the theoretical system behind these cases is supported by Satya's theoretical system.

Good education is interlinked. Compared with Montessori, their basic understanding of children is the same. Of course, Satya is not concerned with children, but with human growth. Montessori pays more attention to the overall guidance of children.

The contents of this book

In the way of education, the author integrates the essence of Satya model-positivity, humanization, understanding and respect for life-into the book. Through the analysis of common parenting puzzles, parents can understand the different effects brought by different treatment methods, see what important psychological nutrition their children need for growth, and how to provide appropriate psychological support.

Wonderful book review

This book gives readers a clear and hopeful framework. Through this framework, parents can learn more about their children, prepare for becoming successful parents, and interact with their children in a way that can create healthier, happier and more successful results.

-John Banmen's world-renowned Satya mentor.

★ Through the analysis of common parenting puzzles, this book lets parents know the different effects brought by different treatment methods, see what important psychological nutrition children need for their growth, and how to provide appropriate psychological support to help children establish the inner quality of healthy sunshine.

—— Wei Min Satya, founder of Beijing Qijia Ye Sheng Education Application Center.

I was very happy when I saw this book. The author flexibly applies Satya's positive thoughts, inner iceberg theory, interpersonal communication theory and body sculpture technology to parenting education. This book is a love gift from the author to his parents. I hope more parents will accept this gift and accompany their children to grow up healthily.

—— Professor Lin Guirui from the Psychological Counseling Center of Capital Normal University

★ This is a book written by good friend Yang Li with love. She used her life wisdom to share the experience of parent-child interaction with parents all over the world. The book contains not only a mother's love for her children, but also a Satya communicator's love for every child in China.

-Hao Zongyuan, Executive Assistant of Bermansatia China Management Center.

library catalogue

Chapter 1 Self-esteem and Confidence

The first part is that parents' attitude is a mirror.

The concave lens reflects the "dwarf"

The convex lens reflects the "giant"

Ha ha mirror reflects chaos.

You are the real you in front of the flat mirror.

Satya Sculpture Class: Don't let the "ideal appearance" block the plane mirror of love.

The second part is to satisfy deep desires: safety, acceptance and me are very important.

safe

Never give up.

Children are not "punching bags"

Crying is a true emotional expression.

admit

Don't embarrass the child's nature.

Honestly, I'm calm.

There are no shortcomings, only characteristics.

I am very important.

Pay attention to children's feelings

Anyone can express his opinion.

Dare to make demands

Chapter II Self-reliance

Part One can only relax and let go after dealing with expectations.

The requirement of "obedience" comes from parents' expectations.

Not all wishes will come true.

Adapt to the child's psychological growth stage

Satya Sculpture Class: Adjusting Expectation and Stimulating Children's Inner Strength

The second part is to satisfy deep desires: trust, appreciation and support.

trust

There are no bad children

Choose your good friends.

Enjoy the happiness of the moment.

appreciate

Appreciate quality, not just behavior.

No comparison is needed.

Refuse a purposeful compliment

support

Substitute suggestions for decisions

Give love when you are weak.

No, it's normal

Chapter III Rules and Boundaries

The first part has clear boundaries and promotes internal integrity.

Really enjoy the benefits of rules and boundaries.

Freedom of behavior is not equal to inner freedom.

Set a restricted healthy way

Make good use of boundaries and handle it runs in the family well.

Satya sculpture class: when children cry because their wishes are not satisfied

The second part is to satisfy deep desires: freedom, fun and respect.

freedom

Contact with real life

Can imagine, dare to express.

Respect children's choice

happy

Only by playing can you enjoy life.

Concerned about learning interest

Happy parents are the best example.

respect

Every child is unique.

Embarrassment hurts.

Autonomy brings a sense of strength

Chapter IV Emotional Management

Only when you have a stable mood can you give stable love.

Emotion is a messenger

Emotional management in Satya mode

Be a child's emotional coach

Satya sculpture class: facing children's negative emotions in a consistent state

The second part satisfies deep desires: understanding, recognition and intimacy.

Understand; Understanding

There's a reason for losing your temper.

Words and deeds come from the heart.

Accept expectations, but don't necessarily meet them.

agree with

Rejection will make a bad mood worse.

Listen to children's opinions

Satisfy your desires in another way.

close

Share the inner world

Critical reaction leads to alienation.

Family harmony is the most important thing

Chapter V Adapting to Society

The first part is growing up with children

Be a good decision maker

Establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.

Really effective communication

Five languages to enhance intimacy

Satya sculpture class: teaching children to establish harmonious interpersonal relationships

The second part is to satisfy deep desires: belonging, connection and sex.

belong to

Involve children in family interaction.

Make friends without wearing "colored glasses"

School is a small society.

join

Open your heart to people.

Intimate contact with nature

Do not complain about the environment.

nature

Tell children the truth about the source of life.

Correctly handle masturbation

Treat "sex" with a healthy attitude

Conclusion Give children two best gifts.

postscript

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