Even in today's Britain, it is still a feature to educate children according to the tradition of "gentleman education" in family education. In British families, there is absolutely no unreasonable doting on children, and children who make mistakes will be corrected or even punished. Parents often strictly control their children on the premise of respecting their independent personality, so that children can understand that their behavior is not endless and they can't do whatever they want. In addition, there are some rules:

1。 In ordinary families, children under the age of five are not allowed to eat at the same table as adults and are not allowed to be picky about what to eat and wear. When it comes to what to do, they will follow the rules, and they will be severely punished for deliberately making mistakes and bullying the young.

2。 No matter who you are to, children should be polite and speak politely, and parents, brothers and sisters are no exception. On the contrary, children will be reprimanded by their parents and even punished by corporal punishment.

3。 Young parents in Britain rarely hold their children in their arms, but let them crawl and play casually. When a child accidentally falls to the ground, British parents will never help him up, but let him stand up on his own, cultivate his independent ability from trivial matters, and let them understand that each of them can't live by his parents, but depends entirely on himself.

4。 In English families, children are never the center. Most western countries have the same idea.

People will consciously "create" some difficult environments, and let children suffer some artificial hardships to temper their will. The school deliberately cooked the food badly and lacked heating equipment. The school requires every student to wear shorts in the playground and in class in bad weather, insist on taking a cold bath, don't cover the warm quilt, and open the window to sleep in winter. This is to get rid of children's femininity, cultivate strong will and improve children's physical and mental quality.